You don’t always have to go at it solo. I’ve compiled a “starter version” of the Bator Black Book—your essential guide to the online communities, the experts, and the tools you need to take your edging practice to the next level and forge your own sticky Bator Black Book resource to share with your Squirt Squad.
If you’ve been following the many conversations on the “Bator Blog,” you know we’ve talked about more profound ways to connect with your boner with through fun activities like edging and cum denial—not just as a way to get a more explosive orgasm, but as a path to self-mastery, focus, and deeper connection to yourself and your greasy pole.
You bators already know or are starting to understand the potential of edging: enhanced stamina, boosted mental clarity, and a richer sex life. But knowing what to do and knowing where to go for guidance are two different things. Edging and cum denial are skills, and like any skill, they’re best learned with a supportive community and good mentors.
The online groups: where to find your bator support
One of the most powerful things about the internet is the continuous ease in finding people who are into the same niche as you. When you’re practicing edging and denial, community support is crucial for staying motivated and sharing insights.
- BateWorld Groups: You’ll find nearly 200 groups and conversations focused explicitly on the practice and many other combinations to challenge your dick-endurance. These groups often host live interactions, share tips, and provide the collective motivation you need to stick with your daily or weekly routines. Also, many videos from your fellow bate community offer their knowledge and experience in the Bateworld media section.
- Telegram, WhatsApp, and Reddit Communities: Many dedicated communities thrive on these platforms. A quick search will reveal numerous groups where members motivate each other, share experiences, and offer advice on managing the emotional and physical intensity of prolonged denial.
- The Gamified Challenge (CockHero): If you prefer a more stimulating, structured, or gamified approach, consider virtual experiences like CockHero videos or similar formats. These present a visual challenge: the goal is to “fap to a tempo,” giving you a concrete, engaging way to test and build your penis endurance. Also, pretty fun to challenge a buddy or two after a beer or 420 puff to see who can last the longest.
The experts and gurus: mentors for your bator journey
Beyond peer support, learning from experienced mentors can “fast-track” so to speak your edging progress, help you curve out and fine-tune your approach, and provide the psychological context for what you’re doing and why. These creators and sexologists offer deep dives into the philosophy and practice:
- Johnathan White on Sexual Kung Fu (YouTube): Johnathan focuses on practices rooted in tantric traditions. His discussions often center on reclaiming sexual energy and channeling it to fuel vitality, creativity, and spiritual growth. If you want the why behind the practice, start here.
- Ben on Men’s Sexual Mastery (YouTube): Ben offers practical, easy-to-understand advice aimed at improving men’s sexual health and performance. His content is fantastic for the man who wants actionable steps for gaining better control and stamina.
- Doctor Jallen Rix (Hand2Rod): As a world-renowned sexologist, Dr. Rix provides expert, evidence-based insights into sexual health and function. His resources offer a credible, science-backed approach to understanding the psychological and physiological benefits of these practices.
- Bruce P. Grether (Erotic Engineering): Often considered a “Bator Guru,” Bruce’s work, particularly his website that offers his Mystery School concept, delves into the deeper, often ritualistic, aspects of sexual exploration and self-discovery. Check out his popular book The Golden Phallus.
These resources are all fantastic ways to connect with and learn from experienced individuals as you reconnect with your phallic manhood!
The goal is growth endurance: “reclaim your sexual energy!”
Prolonged edging and cum denial are more than just trending topics; they represent a shift toward mindful intentionality and motivated exploration in the realm of self-intimacy. By tapping into these communities and learning from these experts, you are moving away from a sort of state of “mindless awareness pleasure-seeking” and transforming your sexual ventures into a journey of mindful, open personal development, with a bonus pleased and well masturbated dick.
You’re building self-control, enhancing intimacy, and cultivating a profound sense of fulfillment that you can share with others. The resources are out there. Now, it’s up to you to take the plunge.
Have you already tried any of these resources? What insights or benefits have you discovered? Let’s keep this conversation going down below in the comment section!
Until next time, stay greasy and keep bating—it works!
— MyB8Buddy
