“Queer Cripple” Andrew Gurza Is Flipping Ableism On It’s Head One Sex Toy At A Time
When I was younger, I used to love to bate. It was one of my favorite moments for me to connect to my body, my masculinity, connect to my queerness, and my disability. From the…
Ask The Batemaster: The Importance of Being Lubed
To protect and increase sensation QUESTION: I’m a man in my seventies and I’ve always masturbated a lot. But often I’ve had a raw spot on my penis, even painful, and sometimes on my balls….
Ask The Batemaster: Monkeypox and Masturbation
“You need not live in fear of any infectious disease if you inform yourself and take sensible precautions.” QUESTION: I’ve heard some scary things about monkeypox lately. Some gay guys are getting it, but…
Waiting For My New Bate Bud To Arrive, Part 2
“Right when I start the porn, he starts to take his clothes off already.” You’ve all been waiting with pitched tents to hear what happened next after Part 1 of Waiting For My New Bate…
Ask The Batemaster: How Can Bating Be Spiritual?
“Spiritual practices tend to be individual exploration of your own direct experience…” QUESTION: Don’t get me wrong: I love to bate! Only it’s gotta be a sin if anything is! Depravity and perversion are part…
MyB8Buddy on Rituals (Bator Training Series Season 5)
Good Day, Bators; Welcome to what I’m simply calling “The Bate Table” series (Go here for previous articles in this series) In the excitement of the fifth installment of the Bator Training Series covering ‘Rituals’…
Waiting For My New Bate Bud To Arrive
It’s 1am. I’m waiting on my porch for a guy to come over to bate with me for the first time. He’s been coming into the bar I work at a lot lately. His friends…
Ask The Batemaster: Frenulum Sensitivity
So long as you get pleasure from your penis… QUESTION: Some guys seem so sensitive on their frenulum at the underside of their penis head that it drives them wild! Mine doesn’t seem to be….
Do You Ever Talk Dirty To Yourself While You Bate?
Getting verbal with a buddy is a blast! But could it also be hot to get verbal when you are alone? The great thing about being a bator is figuring out your own methods (which…
Ask The Batemaster: I Have A Fetish For Guys In Glasses
“Yes, this preference for a certain kind of arousing stimulus probably is what I would call a “fetish,” but not in any negative way.” QUESTION: I’ve got a “guys with specs” fetish, I guess. It’s…
Ask The Batemaster: It’s Not A Gay Thing, It’s A Guy Thing
“To pressure this guy at all might very well backfire, though I agree with you that men masturbating together is not necessarily a gay thing.” QUESTION: I’ve got a super-hot roomie who often bates in…
Ask The Batemaster: Auto-Fellatio
“Can you learn Self-Suck? Is It a Form of the Bate?” QUESTION: What do you think about self-suck, AKA “auto-fellatio?” Of course, it seems most guys can’t do this, but now I see quite a…
