Bators often refer to and greet each other as brothers. They form, in a very real sense, a brotherhood founded on the practice and art of masturbation. Online communities like bateworld provide the common bator a safe and open environment where they can explore, talk about, and share their fondness for masturbation with like minded men. In addition to the camaraderie and reassurance, many men find it more exciting to bate with other men.

Most of the articles my wife and I have written so far for the Masturbation Has No Orientation column on The Bator Blog have dealt with real life J/O sessions with other guys. I’ve been fortunate…

All men who hang together should cum together. It’s about the bond… as men. That’s been my motto throughout my life from the time my penis began to grow and form into an extension of…

Happy International Maysturbation Month! 💦 April showers bring May flowers and also engorged penis’ celebrating International Maysturbation Month, an entire month dedicated to all that we’re about: Masturbation. You know, that mechanical arm gesture simulating…

Let’s face it, all bators, straight, bi, or gay, reach a place when we acknowledge that the pleasure our swollen penis brings us can no longer be denied (except for cum denial, of course, but…

Things that may help: good hydration, drink plenty of water, take Vitamin E… QUESTION: My favorite lube is precum. I often get quite a bit and can use it as a main lube on the…

Sex-plorations from a ‘Bating Sexologist, Jallen Rix (hand2rod) I still feel the loss. When Tumblr (R.I.P.) betrayed all of sexuality by neutering and censoring out it’s erotic population, it was a blow to my sexual…

In this new post, M.B. Timothy (Saboteur on Bateworld), exalts solosexuality as an act of goodwill which benefits all. This essay is about the very modern sex lives of masturbators – the intersection of pleasure, technology and…

I get questions sometimes from other Bateworld members asking for tips on how to meet bate buddies. While there’s no magic formula, I thought I’d share from my own experiences hoping it might spark some…

AFFIRMATION: The GQ Straight Bate Article Sex-periential lessons from a bating sexologist, Dr. Jallen Rix (hand2rod) How exciting to see straight male self-love go mainstream in the GQ article by EJ Dickson, and what an…

My motto is, “A stiff dick has no orientation or sees color.… It just wants to be masturbated.” As I type this I am fifteen minutes into pumping my dong for my three hour edging…

Only you can determine how much masturbation might be enough for you. “Predictably, Porn Raises Its Head!” QUESTION: I really love to stroke to porn. I do it every day, sometimes for hours. Can’t seem…