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Ask The Batemaster: Meditation & Solosex Magick

So much energy and time goes into my bate. How can I incorporate meditation and sexual magick into my masturbation for positive life outcomes? Are there techniques or rituals you recommend?

Lounging with Our Cocks Out: Cock Summit 2018 Success!

I’m happy to report that the 2018 Southwest BateWorld Cock Summit was a great success! This was our third Summit since starting them last April.
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Ask The Batemaster: Bating With A Married Guy

At this big company where I work, there’s this handsome guy with a little dark beard, who I don’t really know. For the third time, I’m in the restroom and at the urinal he “shows hard,” so we go in a stall and jack each other to incredible orgasms. Now I’ve snooped a little and found out he’s married, with one little kid and another on the way. Is it wrong to do it again, now that I know about his family?
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Ask The Batemaster: Prolonged Masturbation (AKA Edging)

Is edging dangerous? I like to go several days without cumming and enjoy bating for an hour or more at a time. Is it unhealthy to build up cum without releasing it?
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Ask The Batemaster: I Masturbate To Myself, A Lot

I get off on getting off, but I’m basically getting off to myself, if you think about it. Is this some form of narcissism? Where does the line blur?
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Ask The Batemaster: I Saw My Brothers Bateworld Profile

My brother left his laptop open and I saw his Bateworld profile: photos and vids. I'm scared, but excited too! What do I do? QUESTION: My older brother and I are both in college at different schools. A while back we visited home. One night…
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Ask The Batemaster: A Poppers And Meds Cocktail

Are poppers okay to use in small amounts if you take blood pressure medicine?
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Ask The Batemaster: To Tell Or Not To Tell, That Is The Question

How do I tell my partner I'm a masturbator? QUESTION: My sex life with my partner is very healthy. How do I bring up my masturbation addiction to them, especially considering that I’m a chronic edger/gooner?RESPONSE: Many men who are…
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Ask The Batemaster: Ejaculation And Your Life Force

The idea that you lose life force after every ejaculation mostly comes from the ancient Taoist teachings from China, about cultivating erotic energy by experiencing intense, prolonged sexual stimulation, but then retaining your semen. This idea can also be found in the Tantra teachings of East India.
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Ask The Batemaster: Socks & Other Fetishes

There is nothing wrong with what turns you on. This one probably qualifies as a sexual fetish. Such a fetish is usually a situation, a prop, a costume, an image, or any particular practice, even a role-playing fantasy, that heightens your arousal.
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Ask The Batemaster: Sexual Fantasies

Distinguishing your fantasies vs. realities is important!

QUESTION: Is it wrong to fantasize about something that could be immoral, or even illegal while I masturbate? Some of those things just turn me on so intensely, man, like nothing else!
 
RESPONSE: Many people assume that fantasizing is what masturbation is all about. Of course, creative self-pleasure has many other major delicious facets. You can make a case for the fact that watching and listening to porn is a form of media-assisted fantasy, because you use the images that arouse you to stimulate your pleasure, and yet it remains vicarious. It is not what is actually happening here and now, though your sensations are real. But live-action porn did happen somewhere at some time and was recorded for an audience.
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Ask The Batemaster: Foreskin

"I notice some guys look at me funny, or even scowl. Should I say something?"

QUESTION: I’m uncut here in the USA, because my mother is sort of a Deadhead hippie type. She’s told me it’s more natural. I absolutely love my foreskin, but being in the minority in the showers at school, I notice some guys look at me funny, or even scowl. Should I say something?
 
RESPONSE: This can be a really sensitive subject, but unless someone says something to you or really looks freaked out, maybe it’s best to just appreciate the extra you’ve got. Try not to let anyone else’s opinion about you bother you on this, or anything else. Still, if someone says something that makes you feel weird, just say, “This is how I’m made, and I love it!” Who knows? He might even want a demonstration, or at least a bit of education!