…if you deliberately had actual sexual contact with an animal, that would be considered bestiality and unfortunately a different legal matter as well. QUESTION: During this cold weather, while I’m masturbating under the covers, my cat climbs on top of me like I’m a mountain. Not sure he understands what I’m doing, but it even […]
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About The Batemaster (Bruce P. Grether)
How Bruce P. Grether became the Batemaster
Among his earliest memories, Bruce recalls seeing an adult man’s penis swing about anchored in a nest of curly brown hairs when the man was changing clothes. That penis fascinated him and he somehow knew it was of major importance. He also remembers how good it felt to slide down a stairway banister or to climb a tree with pressure between his legs sending delicious sensations all through his body.
At an early age, he played doctor with another boy his age, and the frottage he enjoyed as they rubbed their penises together made him feel One with All Things.
He was older, maybe 9 or 10 years when he figured out how to actually masturbate while taking a shower. Immediately Bruce became a fan of self-pleasure, though, with puberty, he became extremely shy about his body being seen. Still, when his pubic hair sprouted and his penis grew bigger, it astonished him how incredible the sensations could feel with adult genitalia.
All through his 20s and 30s Bruce loved masturbating and did it often. Something kept tell him though, that there could be more to it. None of the books he read about Tantra and Taoist erotic cultivation provided simple how-to instructions. Finally, in his early 40s, he came upon Joseph Kramer’s video about male genital massage: FIRE ON THE MOUNTAIN.
Having no playmates to try this with, he tried it on himself. In the process, he discovered what he soon named “Mindful Masturbation.” For 6 weeks he masturbated for hours every day, and did not ejaculate once! This was the Penis Paradise he had been looking for since his adventures playing doctor as a young boy. He was changed forever and lost most of his shyness and insecurities.
Bruce began to listen deeply to whatever his penis told him. This way he learned more and more about male masturbation, the penis, and he studied human sexuality. Soon he was hired to write professionally for the sex education site JackinWorld (dot) com, which he did for some years under the name “Bruce McFarland.”
Since then, his erotic activism is more radical and he uses his actual given name: Bruce P. Grether, AKA the Batemaster. He has hosted workshops and now does online masturbation coaching. In 2012 his best-selling book THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS was published and with his handsome young friend Blue Tyger he created the Erotic Engineering site to explore advanced male self-pleasure practices.
Bruce considers himself a Missionary of the Male Mysteries and his work continues.
Entries by The Batemaster (Bruce P. Grether)
It’s entirely possible that whoever told you he peed at a urinal next to a urinal Chris Pine was using… QUESTION: Someone I know took a leak at a urinal next to Chris Pine at a film festival, and said his penis was awesome—large and really nicely shaped! Then I see this GIF from a […]
Only you can determine how much masturbation might be enough for you. “Predictably, Porn Raises Its Head!” QUESTION: I really love to stroke to porn. I do it every day, sometimes for hours. Can’t seem to stop once I’m in that bate hole. Am I chronic? Am I totally addicted? Is this bad? RESPONSE: Only […]
No. That’s the simple answer to a rather thorny issue among human males. QUESTION: I get great comments on my dick pix here on Bateworld. When I cam, guys say nice things too. Only I’m convinced my cock is actually too small. I know it has a nice big head, but it’s not all that […]
Something I urge you to consider, regardless of how often or how rarely you decide to ejaculate is this: HONOR YOUR SEMEN! QUESTION: I love the bate as much as anything in life, but the only drawback is it can sure be messy! I mean, wet, and that gets cold so soon. I’m already in […]
Many wise and moderate users do discover that pleasurable sensations may be enhanced… QUESTION: I’m not a regular pot-smoker, though I’ve tried it sometimes. I just felt weird, spacey, then sleepy and tired. I hate all the coughing. But then some of my housemates made some cannabis cookies—strong ones—and they persuaded me to try one. […]
Yes! This is actually the only popular “sex toy” that I personally sometimes use. QUESTION: What do you think about the Fleshlight? Seems a bit pricey to a college dude like me, only it looks kind of wonderful how it must feel! Do you think it’s worth it? RESPONSE: Yes! This is actually the only […]
QUESTION: I cum way too easily, way too quickly. It’s what I guess you call “premature ejaculation,” because I cum long before I really want to. I want the pleasure to last and last, but I just get too excited… even if I take my hands off my cock, I almost always cum way too […]
Against all reason and sanity, if you do get caught it would be considered indecent exposure at the least… QUESTION: I love to J.O. in public and almost getting caught! Nothing gets me hotter than to expose myself where people might see me. In these study cubicles at the school library, I love to lean […]
In my experience it seems best to just be straightforward. QUESTION: I really appreciate that you answered my question about explaining to guys why I like to retain my semen, instead of ejaculating so often. Only you didn’t really go into how to deal with guys when I’m camming and they want me to shoot […]
The reasons for this taboo involve such matters as the compromising of parental authority, and exploitation of underage guys. QUESTION: So, what’s the big deal? My father is really cool, and he’s the one who taught me to masturbate. It was my idea, and I asked him about it. We even did it in the […]
A happy solosexual can develop strong, good self-esteem. QUESTION: I’m 23 now, but still have an erection a lot of the time, like in my late teens. Truth is, I’ve had plenty of sex with girls and also with guys, which is great fun! Only I really love to bate most of all. Often, I’d […]