No doubt a foreskin is a marvelous thing… QUESTION: Still in my early twenties here. My foreskin was very tight, and not easy to push down past the head onto the shaft. Always washed carefully but jerked it so much it got painful and raw—then worse: infected! Ended up totally embarrassed at a doctor, but […]
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About The Batemaster (Bruce P. Grether)
How Bruce P. Grether became the Batemaster
Among his earliest memories, Bruce recalls seeing an adult man’s penis swing about anchored in a nest of curly brown hairs when the man was changing clothes. That penis fascinated him and he somehow knew it was of major importance. He also remembers how good it felt to slide down a stairway banister or to climb a tree with pressure between his legs sending delicious sensations all through his body.
At an early age, he played doctor with another boy his age, and the frottage he enjoyed as they rubbed their penises together made him feel One with All Things.
He was older, maybe 9 or 10 years when he figured out how to actually masturbate while taking a shower. Immediately Bruce became a fan of self-pleasure, though, with puberty, he became extremely shy about his body being seen. Still, when his pubic hair sprouted and his penis grew bigger, it astonished him how incredible the sensations could feel with adult genitalia.
All through his 20s and 30s Bruce loved masturbating and did it often. Something kept tell him though, that there could be more to it. None of the books he read about Tantra and Taoist erotic cultivation provided simple how-to instructions. Finally, in his early 40s, he came upon Joseph Kramer’s video about male genital massage: FIRE ON THE MOUNTAIN.
Having no playmates to try this with, he tried it on himself. In the process, he discovered what he soon named “Mindful Masturbation.” For 6 weeks he masturbated for hours every day, and did not ejaculate once! This was the Penis Paradise he had been looking for since his adventures playing doctor as a young boy. He was changed forever and lost most of his shyness and insecurities.
Bruce began to listen deeply to whatever his penis told him. This way he learned more and more about male masturbation, the penis, and he studied human sexuality. Soon he was hired to write professionally for the sex education site JackinWorld (dot) com, which he did for some years under the name “Bruce McFarland.”
Since then, his erotic activism is more radical and he uses his actual given name: Bruce P. Grether, AKA the Batemaster. He has hosted workshops and now does online masturbation coaching. In 2012 his best-selling book THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS was published and with his handsome young friend Blue Tyger he created the Erotic Engineering site to explore advanced male self-pleasure practices.
Bruce considers himself a Missionary of the Male Mysteries and his work continues.
Entries by The Batemaster (Bruce P. Grether)
…Exercises called “Kegels” or “PC clenches” proven to be beneficial to erotic enjoyment. QUESTION: Hey, Bate Master Bruce: In your vids I see how you can make your erect penis flip up and down and bounce around without moving anything else! That’s so awesome! How can I do that? RESPONSE: Hey, Friend, thanks for asking! […]
QUESTION: I’ve got a real problem, and maybe I need help. It started when some of my buddies offered to turn me on to something they said would make sex incredible way beyond anything before. So, we did it, and the first few times it seemed incredible, but now I find I’m strung out, not […]
…open homophobia and secret homoerotic sharing among recruits and military professionals has been used to reinforce loyalty, obedience, and the willingness to go to extremes to protect your comrades or overcome enemy forces. QUESTION: I’m in the military. We have to keep it secret, but a group of my best buds and I J.O. together […]
My suggestion to epic semen-retention athletes is that it probably is a good idea to ejaculate sometimes, maybe a couple of times a month, or at least every few months. QUESTION: Hi, Bruce. My son is really smart, 3rd year at Stanford U. and we raised him liberally. He’s not on Bateworld (as far as […]
Among the core factors, actually, is to be sure not to ignore your testicles. QUESTION: I love my balls! Not necessarily more than my penis, I guess, but just as much in some ways. They are a really BIG part of my bate pleasure! (Yeah, they ARE quite large and hang heavy in a nice […]
All erotic enjoyment can be considered good, healthy and psychologically beneficial. QUESTION: Seriously. I think masturbation rocks way beyond any religion! Am I evil? RESPONSE: Not at all. With all due respect for the fact that not all religion is a negative (it sometimes provides people with a sense of identity and even some decent […]
…if you deliberately had actual sexual contact with an animal, that would be considered bestiality and unfortunately a different legal matter as well. QUESTION: During this cold weather, while I’m masturbating under the covers, my cat climbs on top of me like I’m a mountain. Not sure he understands what I’m doing, but it even […]
It’s entirely possible that whoever told you he peed at a urinal next to a urinal Chris Pine was using… QUESTION: Someone I know took a leak at a urinal next to Chris Pine at a film festival, and said his penis was awesome—large and really nicely shaped! Then I see this GIF from a […]
Only you can determine how much masturbation might be enough for you. “Predictably, Porn Raises Its Head!” QUESTION: I really love to stroke to porn. I do it every day, sometimes for hours. Can’t seem to stop once I’m in that bate hole. Am I chronic? Am I totally addicted? Is this bad? RESPONSE: Only […]
No. That’s the simple answer to a rather thorny issue among human males. QUESTION: I get great comments on my dick pix here on Bateworld. When I cam, guys say nice things too. Only I’m convinced my cock is actually too small. I know it has a nice big head, but it’s not all that […]
Something I urge you to consider, regardless of how often or how rarely you decide to ejaculate is this: HONOR YOUR SEMEN! QUESTION: I love the bate as much as anything in life, but the only drawback is it can sure be messy! I mean, wet, and that gets cold so soon. I’m already in […]