How To Explain That You’re Not Into Anal
Hey Bators, FROTOLOGIST here. While I was working on the article, “When Did You Discover You Were a Bator?” I created a poll on BateWorld to spur comments from BW members to use in the…
Ask The Batemaster: The Right Touch
“There are all sorts of subtle nuances to masturbatory pleasure, which involve pressure, tempos, particular strokes, the right touch, even fetishes and other aspects of arousal.” QUESTION: I’m in University and my roomies all love…
Ask The Batemaster: I Just Wanna Watch Other Guys JO
QUESTION: My best buddy is kind of versatile like me, only he also likes standard gay porn a lot. All I really want to see is guys JO, not even other gay sex. I like…
Ask The Batemaster: Virginity And The Bate
“You’re a virgin who just masturbates” (Yes, that is a play on the famous line from Clueless by our beloved Brittany Murphy. RIP.) QUESTION: I know what really turns me on, so I know I’m…
Ask The Batemaster: Living With Religious Parents
“…You have evidently given yourself permission to enjoy pleasuring yourself, which is great, in itself!” QUESTION: I’m in my early 30s and still live with my loving parents, who are very religious. I masturbate a…
Ask The Batemaster: Am I Asexual?
“There is absolutely nothing wrong with being asexual, if that is truly what is going on with you.” QUESTION: Am I asexual? I only masturbate once every week or two, and sex is not…
How To Negotiate Being A Bator In Love
“Honey… I’m a masturbator.” A relationship is important. It demands your respect. Futures together are worth it. Pasts spent together are to be cherished. Your relationship to yourself is just as sacred though. Your solosexuality…
Sides and Solosexuals: Challenging the Top and Bottom Dichotomy
What if you don’t identify as a “top” or a “bottom” or even “vers”? In gay male vernacular, the term “top” refers to the one who penetrates, and “bottom” is the one who receives. In…
Ask The Batemaster: What Is A Man?
…Respect how someone wants to be seen, and how they view themselves. QUESTION: I met a really handsome bearded guy in a chat room, and we agreed to masturbate on cam. After a while, when…
How To Start Having Better, Deeper Sex With Yourself
Every bator brother can achieve this status. I believe that the best bate sessions start with a great mindset. As my bate sessions grow into new and exciting territories of pleasure, I’m curious if I…
Having It All: My Masturbation Lifestyle
We can celebrate our own individual solo sex without hesitation, doubt or shame, coupled with the beauty of the other person’s display and pleasure. I am a 71 year old bisexual male; a passionate masturbator…
Ask The Batemaster: How Do I Learn To Appreciate My Body?
Mindful Masturbation can improve self-esteem…I suggest a classic “Love Yourself” mirror exercise. QUESTION: In my late teens I suffered a serious sexual trauma. I won’t give details, not to be a bummer, and I’m not…
