Bi Birthday Bate
When my friend “Danny” (see previous blog stories in my BateWorld profile, Doggyboner) had a birthday coming up recently, I offered to take him to a naked drum circle at a local family nudist resort…
Ask The Batemaster: The Spirituality of Frotting
We can [frot] for hours… This is almost like a religion to us. I think it’s spiritual! What do you think? QUESTION: My good friend from work and I love doing cock2cock frot best of…
Ask The Batemaster: Ejaculation Control
“I’m not sure we completely control anything, but we can develop greater skill at navigating our experience!” QUESTION: In the past, when I was with someone sexually, I got so excited it was hard not…
Sides and Solosexuals: Challenging the Top and Bottom Dichotomy
What if you don’t identify as a “top” or a “bottom” or even “vers”? In gay male vernacular, the term “top” refers to the one who penetrates, and “bottom” is the one who receives. In…
Ask The Batemaster: Family Life In Lockdown
QUESTION: We’re not related by blood, and we’re both adults, but some say we look like brothers. He’s actually my stepfather’s younger cousin, and our family is in lockdown now. I caught him bating to…
Ask The Batemaster: Frottage
“Here on Bateworld you do find a fair amount of this special and intense form of pleasure being enjoyed in some guys’ shared personal photos and videos…” QUESTION: I’m really lucky because I have several…
Ask The Batemaster: A Variety Of Ways To Buddy Bate
Mutual masturbation between guys can be enjoyed a lot of different ways.
Ask The Batemaster: Roommates
We jack together often, do mutual, even some frotting cock2cock, and kissing. But he won’t suck, says that’s too gay. What do I do?
Ask The Batemaster: I Love The Solo Bate. Am I Weird? Is This A Fetish?
…A lot of guys won’t just jack, they want to suck.”
QUESTION: I love the solo bate! Only when I’m with a guy, I love nothing better than rubbing cock2cock. Frot, you know? Best thing in the world, although a lot of guys won’t just jack, they want to suck. I even have a realistic dildo I frot my cock with. Am I weird? Is this a fetish?
RESPONSE: You are not weird at all, my friend. And you are far from alone in loving to rub your penis against the penis of a Phallic Brother. In fact, this is a special favorite of mine, which actually set me on my path to becoming an erotic activist. The truth is, I’ve encountered so many men of all kinds who tell me privately they love genital frottage with other guys, that I suspect a large percentage of human males would enjoy this practice intensely if it were encouraged.
