Ask The Batemaster: It’s Not A Gay Thing, It’s A Guy Thing
“To pressure this guy at all might very well backfire, though I agree with you that men masturbating together is not necessarily a gay thing.” QUESTION: I’ve got a super-hot roomie who often bates in…
Ask The Batemaster: Cocks Without A Face
Why are so many guys still afraid to be proud bators and let the world see? QUESTION: In my BateWorld profile I say: If you don’t show both your face and dick in photos, don’t…
Ask The Batemater: Masturbation, Vivid Dreams, and a Novel Series
Masturbation, Vivid Dreams, and a Novel Series QUESTION: In one blog, Bruce, you talked about reading and about characters in books that masturbate. Can you tell a little about the ones in your own books…
Body Image and Representation in Bator Media
Body image issues are an important topic and something I am particularly vocal about. Some readers may remember my article All Sizes Are Good Sizes: Celebrating Dick Diversity and Overcoming Societal Expectations. If you haven’t…
Ask The Batemaster: The Bator Closet (An XXXmas Special)
“Is the Bator Closet So Different?” QUESTION: I told my family I’m gay, and they were okay with that. Said they love me anyway, no matter what. Great! But then I told them over Thanksgiving…
I’m a Female Gooner Who Adores Mutual Masturbation With Men, Here’s Why!
A New Perspective On Mutual Masturbation Catherine from Whoreuro approached us with interest in writing a piece of her love of mutual masturbation with men. We want to make a full disclaimer, that although BateWorld…
Ask The Batemaster: How To Avoid Body-Shaming
“It never helps to compare yourself with others, especially in the department of appearance […] This is an extremely common trap the ego falls into.” QUESTION: Sites like Facebook, gay men’s pages, and a lot…
Ask The Batemaster: French Kissing & Nip Pinching
“Some men consider the tongue as a sort of “upper penis” for it is extremely sensitive!” QUESTION: I’ve got some great bate buddies, which is a huge blessing in my life! But unless they will…
Ask The Batemaster: Living With Religious Parents
“…You have evidently given yourself permission to enjoy pleasuring yourself, which is great, in itself!” QUESTION: I’m in my early 30s and still live with my loving parents, who are very religious. I masturbate a…
Ask The Batemaster: Am I Asexual?
“There is absolutely nothing wrong with being asexual, if that is truly what is going on with you.” QUESTION: Am I asexual? I only masturbate once every week or two, and sex is not…
Bisexual Guy Does Healthy Friction
Bisexual BateWorld Member and Author Stefan Jax (Doggyboner) Experiences Healthy Friction For The First Time BateWorld and The Bator Blog would like to preface this article by wishing everyone a happy Bi Pride Month and…
Ask The Batemaster: Straight Guys Sharing The Bate
I often say that in reality, human males do not neatly fit into a handful of labels, as far as our sexuality is concerned. QUESTION: I keep hearing how more and more straight guys like…
