The couple who masturbates together stays together One of the big additional “benefits” of masturbation, especially for hetero married couples, is that it helps bridge the often difficult period of menopause. This, of course,…
“To pressure this guy at all might very well backfire, though I agree with you that men masturbating together is not necessarily a gay thing.” QUESTION: I’ve got a super-hot roomie who often bates in…
Why are so many guys still afraid to be proud bators and let the world see? QUESTION: In my BateWorld profile I say: If you don’t show both your face and dick in photos, don’t…
Masturbation, Vivid Dreams, and a Novel Series QUESTION: In one blog, Bruce, you talked about reading and about characters in books that masturbate. Can you tell a little about the ones in your own books…
Body image issues are an important topic and something I am particularly vocal about. Some readers may remember my article All Sizes Are Good Sizes: Celebrating Dick Diversity and Overcoming Societal Expectations. If you haven’t…
“Is the Bator Closet So Different?” QUESTION: I told my family I’m gay, and they were okay with that. Said they love me anyway, no matter what. Great! But then I told them over Thanksgiving…
A New Perspective On Mutual Masturbation Catherine from Whoreuro approached us with interest in writing a piece of her love of mutual masturbation with men. We want to make a full disclaimer, that although BateWorld…
“It never helps to compare yourself with others, especially in the department of appearance […] This is an extremely common trap the ego falls into.” QUESTION: Sites like Facebook, gay men’s pages, and a lot…
“Some men consider the tongue as a sort of “upper penis” for it is extremely sensitive!” QUESTION: I’ve got some great bate buddies, which is a huge blessing in my life! But unless they will…
“…You have evidently given yourself permission to enjoy pleasuring yourself, which is great, in itself!” QUESTION: I’m in my early 30s and still live with my loving parents, who are very religious. I masturbate a…
“There is absolutely nothing wrong with being asexual, if that is truly what is going on with you.” QUESTION: Am I asexual? I only masturbate once every week or two, and sex is not…
Bisexual BateWorld Member and Author Stefan Jax (Doggyboner) Experiences Healthy Friction For The First Time BateWorld and The Bator Blog would like to preface this article by wishing everyone a happy Bi Pride Month and…