While the penis is what keeps most Bators connected, I’ve come to understand that we have a fundamental theme that brings us closer than dong. This theme is connection. When I reminisce about the beginning…
Your nipples may be on the lower end of the spectrum of sensitivity, but given attention and devotion, you can develop more and possibly a lot more sensitivity from them. QUESTION: I see how lots…
My “straight” bud and I have a kind of real bromance going, and do an awful lot of stuff together, but… QUESTION: My “straight” bud and I have a kind of real bromance going,…
I’m still struggling with the urge to ejaculate after maybe just 10 or 15 minutes of stroking, at most. QUESTION: I’m still struggling with the urge to ejaculate after maybe just 10 or 15 minutes…
We all know 2020 has beyond sucked and we’re ready for a New Year. Fingers crossed it proves better than this previous and we can put it all behind, safely and healthily. In the meantime,…
The same things don’t work for every man, and though the basic essence of what male masturbation is about is something truly universal to most men, everyone is also individual. QUESTION: Now, what I…
A ‘How-to’ on Dry Orgasms You might be great at edging, for hours even, prolonging your masturbation before reaching the point of no return and ejaculating. But how do you experience the orgasmic state without…
“Golden Eggs? A Big Deal?” QUESTION: My housemate often comes into my room in the middle of the night and we masturbate each other in the dark without saying anything. In the daytime, he won’t…
Generally, as a rule of thumb (+ other thumb, all fingers, and both rosy palms!), the more lube the better. QUESTION: I used to love Albolene for jerking off, but you converted me to coconut…
With everything that is going on in this country and the world right now, what is needed more than ever are peacemakers and healers and mediators. Throughout history, these are the roles of all men…
Consider whether anyone or you yourself are harmed or beset by guilt about it. QUESTION: I have really hot fantasies, which are nothing truly violent, though I don’t think they’re entirely legal. For sure, it’s…
…Respect how someone wants to be seen, and how they view themselves. QUESTION: I met a really handsome bearded guy in a chat room, and we agreed to masturbate on cam. After a while, when…