Male masturbation is no longer automatically portrayed as a shameful, hidden act. As I perused my newTumbl feed recently, I was struck by how much the representation of male masturbation in pornography has changed in…
While the penis is what keeps most Bators connected, I’ve come to understand that we have a fundamental theme that brings us closer than dong. This theme is connection. When I reminisce about the beginning…
Your nipples may be on the lower end of the spectrum of sensitivity, but given attention and devotion, you can develop more and possibly a lot more sensitivity from them. QUESTION: I see how lots…
My “straight” bud and I have a kind of real bromance going, and do an awful lot of stuff together, but… QUESTION: My “straight” bud and I have a kind of real bromance going,…
I’m still struggling with the urge to ejaculate after maybe just 10 or 15 minutes of stroking, at most. QUESTION: I’m still struggling with the urge to ejaculate after maybe just 10 or 15 minutes…
The same things don’t work for every man, and though the basic essence of what male masturbation is about is something truly universal to most men, everyone is also individual. QUESTION: Now, what I…
A ‘How-to’ on Dry Orgasms You might be great at edging, for hours even, prolonging your masturbation before reaching the point of no return and ejaculating. But how do you experience the orgasmic state without…
Generally, as a rule of thumb (+ other thumb, all fingers, and both rosy palms!), the more lube the better. QUESTION: I used to love Albolene for jerking off, but you converted me to coconut…
With everything that is going on in this country and the world right now, what is needed more than ever are peacemakers and healers and mediators. Throughout history, these are the roles of all men…
In The Happy Hypersexual, Jason Armstrong explores emerging sexual identities that shape his and others mens’ worlds. Jason Armstrong is back! Armstrong (aka wildhorse100 on BateWorld) released his third book, The Happy Hypersexual, on Monday, November 2nd. As…
Every bator brother can achieve this status. I believe that the best bate sessions start with a great mindset. As my bate sessions grow into new and exciting territories of pleasure, I’m curious if I…
We can celebrate our own individual solo sex without hesitation, doubt or shame, coupled with the beauty of the other person’s display and pleasure. I am a 71 year old bisexual male; a passionate masturbator…