“You can turn this [penis pleasure] into a mental focus to explore ever-higher plateaus of pleasure…” QUESTION: Sometimes, Bruce, you say that the more noise you make during the bate the more pleasure you feel….

For BateWorld’s Tenth Anniversary, We’re proud to announce the World Premiere of “Happy Birthday To Me,” an explicit music video written by David Pevsner and starring RealGuyL.A. (Make sure you’re logged into your BW account…

When I told my friend, “Brett,” that I might be writing a personal story for Bateworld for International Bi Visibility Day (celebrated around the world on September 23rd each year), he wrote, “Well in my…

How do I explain the most beautiful experience of my life? I can think of two words, “Cock Summit”. Ever since I left the Summit my being has been so uplifted, but it is difficult…

QUESTION: We’re a happy couple: I’m 41 and my partner is 37. We’re not married, but we love each other a lot. Both of us adore the bate as much as anything, except maybe oral…

Straightforward communication is key here! QUESTION: There’s this bate buddy I really like otherwise, except whenever we do mutual, he makes me come too quickly. That’s easy for him because my penis is really sensitive…

On the cusp of releasing his second book about life as a solosexual, Jason Amstrong takes a trip down memory lane to a post he wrote on The Bator Blog years in 2016. Once upon…

When you can both be open to it, honest communication makes all the difference in the world! QUESTION: My boyfriend of nearly a year is totally adorable. It’s more than sexual, but a lot of…

There’s really nothing stopping you from pitching your tent in some private corner of your city world and inviting your buddy to share it with you. QUESTION: My good friend and I went camping. With…

What you describe sounds like what many folks mean these days by “solosexual.” QUESTION: Nothing feels so good to me as masturbation. Not sucking, not fucking, not anything else. Sharing with a buddy can be…

There are numerous benefits to encouraging open and honest information and attitudes about male masturbation QUESTION: We’re not supposed to talk about family stuff like this on BW, I guess. But let me tell you,…

Bators often refer to and greet each other as brothers. They form, in a very real sense, a brotherhood founded on the practice and art of masturbation. Online communities like bateworld provide the common bator a safe and open environment where they can explore, talk about, and share their fondness for masturbation with like minded men. In addition to the camaraderie and reassurance, many men find it more exciting to bate with other men.