Ask Dr. Bate: Sustained Edging and Shooting Further
How do I make myself edge and shoot my cum further? I cum in less than a minute and I want to stroke longer and shoot my cum.
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Retrospective: The Bate in the 80’s
In the early part of the decade, I came to the realization that I was a masturbator, that masturbation was my preferred sexual act. I didn't seem to know any other masturbators, though; not in the sense that I was. Still, I thought there had to be others, so I put a few personal ads in some gay sex publications looking for other masturbators.
Have You CREAM OF CONNER?
As a sexual icon, Conner Habib is one of a contemporary wave of porn stars using social media to celebrate sexuality without shame. He left an academic career to be a sex performer, and his commitment to proudly exposing himself to the world is something I admire (he’s currently retired, but his hard cock will always live on online). I often wonder what his former students must think when they see explicit images of Conner
MY EUROPEAN BATE-CATION REDUX: PART 3
The main floor of the two large complexes here is mostly all shopping, restaurants, and discos. That was one of the things I was most excited about, that you could go to all of these places naked. But when we got there, hundreds of people were all dressed up for a night out. We were the only two people walking around naked. I don't understand why when people have the opportunity to be nude, they wear clothes. I know I'm more of a committed nudist than most, but this IS a naturist resort!
Prostrate Stimulation: The Pleasures of Assturbation
I know that most readers here probably don’t care who the butt players are, who the “bottoms” are or why because they (we) realize it’s part of our nature as men and as masturbators to explore all areas of yourself regardless of your sexuality. This is mainly for anyone who has ever considered touching their butthole, pleasuring it, asking their partner to, but felt concerned that maybe it means something else “Maybe I’m gay…”
Transitioning From Str8 To Bisexual
Life is full of decisions and changes, some for the better and some not. Making these changes bring us to what I refer to as ‘my crossroads of life’ because no matter the direction you turn your heading into the unknown.
Ask Dr. Bate: Masturbating Longer
How can I last longer while bating my friendly cock?
Your question is an important one because I spend a considerable amount of time helping guys discover and explore masturbation not only as a genital specific activity/practice but as a full body experience.
Camp Classics: Movin’ With Nancy
The camp value of Movin’ With Nancy is astronomical, but at heart is an impressive, Emmy-winning TV special produced and directed by Jack Haley, Jr. Nancy Sinatra is at her iconic peak. She's stylish, charming and beautiful, and the material suits her well, even when it's stretching her range. Featuring a Rat Pack triumvirate as guest stars, MWN showcases some great, occasionally trippy period songs from Lee Hazlewood and others in lush arrangements.
Ask Dr. Bate: Bating Together And Bate Party Virgins
Sometimes I can't get hard with some friends with whom I cam with regularly. I really like getting to know people, it makes the bate more intense, but it seems like once I start to like them like friends, then my erections start to wane. I typically can be nice and hard for headless cocks that I only bate with once or twice, than guys with whom I share a connection. I've talked to some people about this and they always ask if it's because I feel guilty
SOLIDARITY
Each of us at BateWorld and The BatorBlog are deeply saddened by the tragic and senseless violence at the Pulse nightclub in Orlando, Florida over the weekend. We recognize the unique, irreplaceable lives and voices who have been lost or injured, the impact on their families, friends, and loved ones, and the damage it’s inflicted on an entire community both local and international.
Cocks Connected Around the World Meditation
We can share the sexy and nurturing experience of stroking our cocks wherever we are, and that feels great! To be honest, it’s pretty amazing! It gives me strength and confidence and frees me to express my true feelings because I can actually see men all around the world doing the same thing. What could be more affirming to our masculinity but sharing one the most pleasurable experiences that is uniquely our own?
Ask Dr. Bate: Chronic Masturbation and Tending to the Temple
I am a physically fit 47-year-old man. I have always masturbated. But for the past 7 years I've increased the amount I touch my cock to 3-5 times a day. I mean, I can't get enough, even after sex I'll stay awake and stroke my hard cock to orgasm. For example, today I was off and I masturbated 6 times and made love to my beautiful wife.