Ask The Batemaster: Breathing & The Bate
Breathe slowly and deeply, as tools in your kit of masturbation skills and tactics. QUESTION: You often talk about deep breathing and the bate. I mean, I know breathing keeps us alive, right? But can…
“Queer Cripple” Andrew Gurza Is Flipping Ableism On It’s Head One Sex Toy At A Time
When I was younger, I used to love to bate. It was one of my favorite moments for me to connect to my body, my masculinity, connect to my queerness, and my disability. From the…
Ask The Batemaster: I Saw My Roomate On Cam (Now I Want To Join!)
He still doesn’t know I watched that… but how can I tell him? Do I dare ask if he’ll let me join? QUESTION: I’ve got several roomies. One I have a special crush on. I…
Ask The Batemaster: The Importance of Being Lubed
To protect and increase sensation QUESTION: I’m a man in my seventies and I’ve always masturbated a lot. But often I’ve had a raw spot on my penis, even painful, and sometimes on my balls….
Designing Your Bate Cave/Space
Recently a friend of mine told me an eye-opening story about hanging out at the house of a mutual friend of ours. After dinner and some drinks, our friend’s wife excused herself so the men…
Ask The Batemaster: Monkeypox and Masturbation
“You need not live in fear of any infectious disease if you inform yourself and take sensible precautions.” QUESTION: I’ve heard some scary things about monkeypox lately. Some gay guys are getting it, but…
Waiting For My New Bate Bud To Arrive, Part 2
“Right when I start the porn, he starts to take his clothes off already.” You’ve all been waiting with pitched tents to hear what happened next after Part 1 of Waiting For My New Bate…
MyB8Buddy on Rituals (Bator Training Series Season 5)
Good Day, Bators; Welcome to what I’m simply calling “The Bate Table” series (Go here for previous articles in this series) In the excitement of the fifth installment of the Bator Training Series covering ‘Rituals’…
Waiting For My New Bate Bud To Arrive
It’s 1am. I’m waiting on my porch for a guy to come over to bate with me for the first time. He’s been coming into the bar I work at a lot lately. His friends…
Ask The Batemaster: Frenulum Sensitivity
So long as you get pleasure from your penis… QUESTION: Some guys seem so sensitive on their frenulum at the underside of their penis head that it drives them wild! Mine doesn’t seem to be….
Ask The Batemaster: It’s Not A Gay Thing, It’s A Guy Thing
“To pressure this guy at all might very well backfire, though I agree with you that men masturbating together is not necessarily a gay thing.” QUESTION: I’ve got a super-hot roomie who often bates in…
Ask The Batemaster: My Imagination Seems Better
There is nothing weird about what you say, that imagining a celebrity guy’s penis might be better than seeing the actual thing. QUESTION: Saw your blog about the penis-obsessed guy. Well, I always look closely…
