More Bator Terms (This Time ‘Items’ You Should Own) For Your Bate Arsenal If you’re new to the bator community, there will no doubt be some unfamiliar terms that pop up while you’re making all…

There are no absolutes, no rules in male masturbation, except according to me: “Never hurt yourself, or hurt anyone else.” QUESTION: I know you say it’s always good to stroke with lube, and reasons why….

We all know 2020 has beyond sucked and we’re ready for a New Year. Fingers crossed it proves better than this previous and we can put it all behind, safely and healthily. In the meantime,…

Generally, as a rule of thumb (+ other thumb, all fingers, and both rosy palms!), the more lube the better. QUESTION: I used to love Albolene for jerking off, but you converted me to coconut…

In University days I was a science major, a prerequisite I was required to take two geology courses, and this is where I was introduced to stone and crystal formations. On one of my crystal…

QUESTION: I am a physician, an M.D. in my 30s who has long been a fan of your teachings. I work in an Emergency Room, which is very stressful and the hours long. I’m single,…

The most effective means of restoring penis head sensitivity is to always use lubrication from now on… QUESTION: My dick is cut, and the head seems to have lost a lot of sensitivity. I know…

Things that may help: good hydration, drink plenty of water, take Vitamin E… QUESTION: My favorite lube is precum. I often get quite a bit and can use it as a main lube on the…

There are countless lubes out there — and, of course, the option of none at all — to bring your bate from fun to fantastic. I discovered coconut oil as a bate aid through a friend…

To Lube or Not to Lube?

QUESTION:I typically masturbate without lube or lotion because I sit at the computer to chat, flip through porn, or have phone sex. I am worried that my penis is getting damaged due to dry skin, but I don’t want to get my computer/phone covered in lube. Any thoughts on this?