Did you ever want a blow job when no one else is around to help? Or maybe you want to shake up your bate with a new experience. Enter The Handy. The sex toy industry,…
Masturbators, as the New Year rolls in I have been reflecting on one of my favorite subjects: masturbation. I am a masturbation advocate with a lifelong intellectual interest in male masturbation. I have enjoyed several…
QUESTION: I get turned on and jack off almost exclusively to images of shirtless men: bare chests, pecs, nips, abs, ribcages, and hairy pits. I like a treasure trail, but where it leads is less…
QUESTION: I’m in a bit of a dilemma. My partner is a light sleeper. He sleeps late and I wake early. When I stroke my morning wood in our bed as quietly as possible, it…
Neuroplasticity makes it possible to weave new nerve pathways into your nervous system and brain. QUESTION: You sometimes use long, fancy words, Bruce! Can you tell me in simple, clear terms what “neuroplasticity” really means?…
Multiple ejaculation is simply a matter of abundant erotic energy generated within you… QUESTION: Maybe it’s because I’m still in my 20s. I can get so excited during my sessions that I experience multiple ejaculation,…
QUESTION: I’m healthy, in my 50s, and a mindful masturbator, so I don’t use porn a lot. But sometimes my erection doesn’t get very hard, even on cam with a hot bate bud. Not too…
I’m sure it is common to most office situations with male workers. It is certainly not wrong morally! QUESTION: Since returning to the office after restrictions have been eased, I’ve been hearing guys masturbate…
“The goon, such passion and desire that your penis gives off is extremely captivating and well renowned in every stroke.” Oh sorry, I was doing a goon chant there. One of the many small rituals…
I love self-pleasuring but also into cages. Can you unite being a bator and being caged? QUESTION: I always had problems with my masculinity below my waist. I wanted to shut myself up with a…
Breathe slowly and deeply, as tools in your kit of masturbation skills and tactics. QUESTION: You often talk about deep breathing and the bate. I mean, I know breathing keeps us alive, right? But can…
When I was younger, I used to love to bate. It was one of my favorite moments for me to connect to my body, my masculinity, connect to my queerness, and my disability. From the…