Often you might find men of the community come and go and come back again. One can never really pinpoint the reasoning, and maybe they don’t know either, perhaps they just needed a break. One day you meet a cool bator, chat, bate, connect, and the next day his profile is gone. Did he get cold feet? Does he feel ashamed? They are all valid questions that deserve some answering and elaborating.
Many wise and moderate users do discover that pleasurable sensations may be enhanced… QUESTION: I’m not a regular pot-smoker, though I’ve tried it sometimes. I just felt weird, spacey, then sleepy and tired. I hate…
Yes! This is actually the only popular “sex toy” that I personally sometimes use. QUESTION: What do you think about the Fleshlight? Seems a bit pricey to a college dude like me, only it looks…
I’m not a big go-out-on-the-town-and-party-all-night kinda guy anymore. My early 30s have introduced me to the pleasures and luxuries of things like “staying in,” “having another cup of tea,” and “going to bed at a…
The reasons for this taboo involve such matters as the compromising of parental authority, and exploitation of underage guys. QUESTION: So, what’s the big deal? My father is really cool, and he’s the one who…
I was 18 and comparing dicks with a buddy on my cross country team. We chat about porn, compare sizes and bust a nut together in the locker room urinals before practice. Just two endlessly…
A happy solosexual can develop strong, good self-esteem. QUESTION: I’m 23 now, but still have an erection a lot of the time, like in my late teens. Truth is, I’ve had plenty of sex with…
In Shere Hite’s 1981 classic “Hite Report on Male Sexuality” she famously found that 43% of teenage boys experimented sexually with other boys (usually through group or mutual masturbation) and this had no effect on…
Just accept full responsibility for everything you do, learn from the experience, and understand that you can never be truly responsible for what anyone else does. QUESTION: I’m not underage, but sometimes I wonder if…
This is a sensitive subject, both in terms of Bateworld parameters and actual family life. I cannot condone what your brothers were doing or condemn it… QUESTION: There are a lot of guys in my…
Let me start by saying, to me, in my everyday life, labels don’t exist therefore I choose not to label myself, but for all sake and purposes to bring some clarity to those that may…
The best approach may be to tell him about yourself, in terms of some of the things that turn you on, without getting too specific… QUESTION: My best friend and I jacked off together ever…