Ask The Batemaster: How To Avoid Body-Shaming
Sites like Facebook, gay men’s pages, and a lot of online porn vids seem to cause me body shame. I’m a bit chubby and a “cub." How can I improve my body image?
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Ask The Batemaster: I’d Love A Three-Way Bate
I’ve two great bate buddies, and they both love doing it with me. But so far, they won’t do a 3-way with all 3 of us. That’s my fantasy! Doesn’t it sound hot?
Ask The Batemaster: Fully Vaccinated Bate Weekend, Safe or Not?
I’m fully vaccinated. Seems there’s a lot of unknowns. I want to go to an in-person bate weekend, but I’m not sure. Do you think it’s safe?
Ask The Batemaster: Is The Bate Anti-Social?
The idea that masturbation is anti-social is just part of outdated anti-masturbation campaigns that linger from the last few centuries.
Ask The Batemaster: Virginity And The Bate
I’m still a virgin, even though I’m in my late twenties, and all I want is to masturbate. I’m a happy person! Do you think I need to lose my virginity?
Ask The Batemaster: French Kissing & Nip Pinching
I’ve got some great bate buddies, which is a huge blessing in my life! But unless they will kiss deeply and pinch my nips really hard I can’t come with them.
Ask The Batemaster: Ejaculation Control
It used to be hard not to cum almost immediately. Since I have learned your Mindful Masturbation practice, I can even frot with guys for a long, long time.
Ask The Batemaster: Dry Stroking
I know you say it’s good to stroke with lube, but I love dry stroking! I’m circumcised, and my penis is still really sensitive. What’s wrong with this picture?
Ask The Batemaster: Living With Religious Parents
I’m in my early 30s and still live with my loving parents, who are very religious. I masturbate a lot. We don’t talk about sex at all. Is it a good idea to try?
Ask The Batemaster: Bate Buddy Jealousy
My best friend and I love to masturbate together. I know he does it a lot with other men online. How can I persuade him to stick to me as his only bate buddy?
Ask The Batemaster: Am I Asexual?
Am I asexual? I only masturbate once every week or two, and sex is not so important to me as it seems to many guys.
Ask The Batemaster: Isn’t Loving Yourself Just Selfishness?
Bruce, you often talk about self-pleasure as a form of loving yourself. Isn’t loving yourself just selfishness? I mean, at the expense of other people?