“Is the Bator Closet So Different?” QUESTION: I told my family I’m gay, and they were okay with that. Said they love me anyway, no matter what. Great! But then I told them over Thanksgiving…
Honor your erection as a Sacred Tree that helps to hold up the sky and returns the light to your life to you whenever you masturbate! *Featured image courtesy of Daily Mail QUESTION: I’ve sometimes…
“[…] Your beliefs and practices are not really anyone else’s business.” QUESTION: I love phallus worship, or at least the idea of it, I guess. Only some guys seem to do it with a Satanic…
“…You are well on your way to liberation from such guilt and shame simply by being aware of it.” QUESTION: My family is not religious or conservative. But I still feel some guilt or shame…
“That’s my fantasy! Doesn’t it sound hot?” QUESTION: I’ve got these two great bate buddies, and they both love doing it with me. But so far, they won’t do a 3-way with all 3 of…
Vaccination Masturbation QUESTION: I’m afraid of catching COVID, even though I’m fully vaccinated. Seems there’s a lot of unknowns. I want to go to an in-person bate weekend, but I’m not sure. Do you think…
“The idea that masturbation is anti-social […] is just part of outdated anti-masturbation campaigns that linger from the last few centuries.” QUESTION: I do it with bate buds and in groups! To me, bating is…
“You’re a virgin who just masturbates” (Yes, that is a play on the famous line from Clueless by our beloved Brittany Murphy. RIP.) QUESTION: I know what really turns me on, so I know I’m…
“Some men consider the tongue as a sort of “upper penis” for it is extremely sensitive!” QUESTION: I’ve got some great bate buddies, which is a huge blessing in my life! But unless they will…
“I’m not sure we completely control anything, but we can develop greater skill at navigating our experience!” QUESTION: In the past, when I was with someone sexually, I got so excited it was hard not…
There are no absolutes, no rules in male masturbation, except according to me: “Never hurt yourself, or hurt anyone else.” QUESTION: I know you say it’s always good to stroke with lube, and reasons why….
“…You have evidently given yourself permission to enjoy pleasuring yourself, which is great, in itself!” QUESTION: I’m in my early 30s and still live with my loving parents, who are very religious. I masturbate a…
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