Ask The Batemaster: Ejaculation Control
It used to be hard not to cum almost immediately. Since I have learned your Mindful Masturbation practice, I can even frot with guys for a long, long time.
Advice
Ask The Batemaster: Dry Stroking
I know you say it’s good to stroke with lube, but I love dry stroking! I’m circumcised, and my penis is still really sensitive. What’s wrong with this picture?
Ask The Batemaster: Bush Lover
When I see that a guy has shaved it’s an instant turn-off and I totally lose interest. It seems so unnatural! Why do some guys do that to what Nature gave them?
Ask The Batemaster: Living With Religious Parents
I’m in my early 30s and still live with my loving parents, who are very religious. I masturbate a lot. We don’t talk about sex at all. Is it a good idea to try?
Ask The Batemaster: Bate Buddy Jealousy
My best friend and I love to masturbate together. I know he does it a lot with other men online. How can I persuade him to stick to me as his only bate buddy?
Ask The Batemaster: Am I Asexual?
Am I asexual? I only masturbate once every week or two, and sex is not so important to me as it seems to many guys.
Ask The Batemaster: I Just Want Me. Is This Normal?
I’m in my late 20s, athletic, folks say I’m good looking, and I love the bate. I don’t want sex with anyone. It’s just me and my penis!
Ask The Batemaster: Isn’t Loving Yourself Just Selfishness?
Bruce, you often talk about self-pleasure as a form of loving yourself. Isn’t loving yourself just selfishness? I mean, at the expense of other people?
Ask The Batemaster: Word Choices Matter, Right?
Word choices matter—sort of! This is a good question, and it brings up the basic issue of language and how the words we choose relate to things.
The Best Sex Can Be With Yourself
Instead of feeling shame that I’d just wasted time that could've been used doing something “productive,” I felt like I’d just had the best sex of my life.
Ask The Batemaster: Straight Guys Sharing The Bate
I'm straight and like to bate with other straight men. How can I hook up with other straight guys who only want to bate with me and not do other gay stuff?
Ask The Batemaster: Getting Seen In Nature
Recently we stopped to mutually masturbate by a gorgeous waterfall. We were off the trail, but this couple came by and saw us. Could we get in trouble for this?