There’s a warm and friendly authenticity to Kae Ecstatic, a current contender in BateWorld’s annual BateOff. He recently talked with Edge Media for a candid conversation about men’s sexuality and how masturbation is part of a healthy lifestyle. He’s relaxed and shirtless for the Zoom call, ready to share his experience as an influencer and spiritual coach. Kae is devoted to shedding stigma and embracing a sexual/spiritual outlook in life.
A lot of people find a naked photo or video of me online, and they’re like, ‘Who is this guy? I’m not used to seeing somebody naked and saying nice things and talking about body positivity and demonstrating body touch in a way that isn’t judgmental or focused just on gratuitous pleasure. –Kae Ecstatic
Followers of this multitalented bator might know Kae from OnlyFans or one of his many other social media accounts. He’s also a yogi and an author, with a new book (his third), coming out later this month. 48 Gateways to the Ecstatic Self explores the process of reclaiming one’s authentic self and owning the “…ecstatic, joy-filled, meditative, blissful state of being in every capacity.”
I knew that a big part of me finding wholeness was about
reclaiming my body and my sexuality. To reclaim our bodies as sacred and holy, to reclaim our sexuality is something beautiful, is very much my vocation.
A Masturbation Journey
When asked about what brought him to the Great BateOff, Kae explains that he views masturbation as a meditative tool for self-connection. Identifying mostly as a side rather than a top or bottom, he has always felt strongly about his personal sexuality. Sharing his experience as an influencer and coaching others on their journey has led him to a community of like-minded men on BateWorld.
The audition process for the BateOff was a little intimidating. Since Kae is predominantly focused on solo sex for personal growth, he found the emphasis on masturbation technique to be a new challenge.
Pretty much everybody has sex with themselves, and to let go the stigma and shame around that, to learn to celebrate our bodies and celebrate what makes us being human, I thought that could be a wonderful opportunity.
The BateOff challenges are where the contestants get to show some real creativity. Each week presents a new theme and a renewed opportunity for these eager bators to showcase their talents. This year will show them using toys, post-workout stroking, and using a mirror for some verbal bating.
Kae loves a good story and works each week to show that he has a larger narrative in mind. In episode 2’s Post Workout Wank challenge, he has one foot behind his head while stroking his massive penis—daily yoga has its benefits. In another challenge, he’s channeling a wizard, a gladiator, and then a himbo.
Horny BateOff Bros Beat Their Meat for the Win
There are six contestants all battling for the title of Master Bator. Joining Kae Ecstatic are fellow bators RickyRik, OutdoorBator, GoonerSunny, ParkerWoodsx, and FieldofHoney. This season’s cast is an exiting lineup of bator bros, each with their own individual approach. Kae describes it as an offering of different flavors rather than a hierarchy of masturbation skills.
You’re going to see people who lean into Gooner culture, drooling and cross-eyed. You’re going to see people who view it as more of a modeling thing, and they’re looking to show off their body. You’re going to find people who are leaning into a dad archetype. It’s going to be more about what kind of style, aesthetic, approach, mindset people resonate with.
Having fun and being authentic are Kae’s biggest priorities, even if outside forces sometimes work against those goals. He believes it is an act of defiance to be joyful when there is suppression. Confronting the darkness with positive intention and channeling joy is what brings personal victory in the end. Kae sums it up in just a few words—go be you.
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