Many men in today’s world (sometimes myself included) enjoy masturbating to porn on the Internet, which can prove highly arousing and provide great bate fuel. In my opinion, porn is sacred, as it shares an extremely important part of our lives that most mainstream cultures still frown upon and often seek to keep hidden.
Endings and Beginnings
All of us at BateWorld and The BatorBlog want to thank Garland and Toby for their insightful and thought-provoking articles for The BatorBlog's Dr. Bate column. After two years of monthly articles, they'll now be moving on to pursue their calling in private practice and group workshops, and we all want to wish them the best.
Sometimes when I ejaculate in the presence of another man or men, my screams and shouts of ecstatic release with the orgasm are so loud that I’ve actually frightened a few guys! And even when I choose not to ejaculate, I can groan and growl alarmingly
A Good Cumming Frequency
Do you have any specific advice around how frequently to cum when you're able to edge for an hour or so a day without ejaculating? I can go for a month or so like that but I'm not sure it's a healthy way to go.
One important way that you can increase your masturbatory pleasure many times over is to break the sound barrier—maybe not in the way this sounds at first! Give yourself total permission to groan, growl, and even shout out your enjoyment, your pleasure, your ecstasy as you masturbate!
My handsome friend in South America masturbates with me on Skype, moaning, gasping, his head rolls back and forth; he pauses, as if stunned, and moves his hands away from the meaty pillar of his penis in the foreground of my view. Then his head falls back in a look of beatitude, like some kind of saint in ecstasy, as his body twitches and writhes in place, his thighs vibrate.
So the second part of this practice to experience dry orgasms and possibly multiple male orgasms, come when you are masturbating. This is a challenge of fine-tuning, and not so much a feat of obsessive control, as of paying really, really close attention to your level of arousal, and then using your ability to relax that pee-stopper muscle at just the right moment. This can reward you beyond your wildest dreams!
How would you like to have as many orgasms as you want without having to wait to get over the after-effects of a full-blown ejaculation?
I have an uncircumcised penis, which I love. But, it's also sensitive. I definitely love bating and all, but because by dick head is sensitive, I just can't edge for long periods of time like many bator friends on here. Wish I could. What techniques can I try to increase the time I can edge without releasing?
I’m in a hot bubble bath, using a great foaming product that doesn’t have strong chemical fragrance or any irritants to the sensitive opening at the tip of my fully engorged penis. The strokes on my erection are slick and wet, while under the water I’ve gently yet firmly inserted my middle finger into my anus. Within the silky inner wall of my rectum, my finger encounters a distinct bulge that I begin to slowly press and rub with spectacular results: glorious storms of sensation; nearly intolerable bliss…
On Skype, I’m sharing masturbation with my handsome friend who lives in another part of the world, when he grins sheepishly: “Do you mind if I insert my finger?” I tell him, “Of course not, please do!” So adding more lube, he carefully inserts his middle finger into his anus. I see on his face, the intensity of his bliss notch up even higher, as his knuckle stimulates his prostate while his other hand caresses his erection…
How do we define "male bonding" and what does it involve? Devotion? Deep friendship? Understanding each other? Contact? How close two men can come together and where is the line between friendship and sex? Can masturbation be considered male bonding?
