Sides and Solosexuals: Challenging the Top and Bottom Dichotomy
What if you don’t identify as a “top” or a “bottom” or even “vers”? In gay male vernacular, the term “top” refers to the one who penetrates, and “bottom” is the one who receives. In…
Ask The Batemaster: The “Expressway Y” To Total Bate Bliss
The “Expressway Y” leads to bate bliss triple A+! QUESTION: This thing you call “Expressway Y”—love it, man! It’s bate bliss triple A+++! And I’m not afraid of big words, so can you explain about…
What Does Toxic Masculinity Look Like?
Toxic Masculinity Part II: The Man Box So, what does toxic masculinity look like? Last month I started this series off with Part I discussing what Toxic Masculinity is and will continue in Part II…
Ask The Batemaster: Is My Fetish Weird?
Somehow totally naked guys aren’t quite so exciting to me! Is this weird? What do you think about this? QUESTION: I’m wondering about myself. I am most turned on by seeing guys partly dressed and…
Ask The Batemaster: How Do I Ask For What I Want?
The most effective way to communicate about this is to be open and honest verbally. QUESTION: One of my buds in the house I share with some guys, and I enjoy mutual masturbation quite…
What Is Toxic Masculinity?
Greetings my brother bators, This will be the first in a series of articles discussing the issues of toxic masculinity and how it impacts our bator community. It is my goal with these articles to…
12 Bate Toys & Fuel To Take With You Into The New Year
We all know 2020 has beyond sucked and we’re ready for a New Year. Fingers crossed it proves better than this previous and we can put it all behind, safely and healthily. In the meantime,…
The Tantric Touch
With everything that is going on in this country and the world right now, what is needed more than ever are peacemakers and healers and mediators. Throughout history, these are the roles of all men…
Jason Armstrong Releases New Book “The Happy Hypersexual”
In The Happy Hypersexual, Jason Armstrong explores emerging sexual identities that shape his and others mens’ worlds. Jason Armstrong is back! Armstrong (aka wildhorse100 on BateWorld) released his third book, The Happy Hypersexual, on Monday, November 2nd. As…
How To Start Having Better, Deeper Sex With Yourself
Every bator brother can achieve this status. I believe that the best bate sessions start with a great mindset. As my bate sessions grow into new and exciting territories of pleasure, I’m curious if I…
Ask The Batemaster: How Do I Learn To Appreciate My Body?
Mindful Masturbation can improve self-esteem…I suggest a classic “Love Yourself” mirror exercise. QUESTION: In my late teens I suffered a serious sexual trauma. I won’t give details, not to be a bummer, and I’m not…
Being A Masturbator
“Our responsibility as men and masturbators is to continue to perpetuate positive images and attitudes toward masturbation…” by Bateworld member JerkoffboyCT For more than three centuries, the notion of a man ‘being a masturbator’, has…
