Ask The Batemaster: Is The Bate Anti-Social?
“The idea that masturbation is anti-social […] is just part of outdated anti-masturbation campaigns that linger from the last few centuries.” QUESTION: I do it with bate buds and in groups! To me, bating is…
Two Writers Talk Bate: An Interview with StrokingtheSoul
The tables have turned in this exclusive interview with BateWorld members wildhorse100 and StrokingtheSoul Not too long ago, writer Jason Armstrong (wildhorse100 on BateWorld) was interviewed by writer Anthony Ragonese (StrokingtheSoul on BateWorld). You can…
The Horndog and the Cockmonger: An Interview
Jason Armstrong (Wildhorse100) talks all things Solosexual with fellow Bateworld member StrokingtheSoul (Anthony) Jason Armstrong is the author of three books: Solosexual: Portrait of a Masturbator (2016), Getting Off: The Unlikely Chronicles of a Solosexual…
How To Negotiate Being A Bator In Love
“Honey… I’m a masturbator.” A relationship is important. It demands your respect. Futures together are worth it. Pasts spent together are to be cherished. Your relationship to yourself is just as sacred though. Your solosexuality…
Sides and Solosexuals: Challenging the Top and Bottom Dichotomy
What if you don’t identify as a “top” or a “bottom” or even “vers”? In gay male vernacular, the term “top” refers to the one who penetrates, and “bottom” is the one who receives. In…
Representation of Male Masturbation in Pornography
Male masturbation is no longer automatically portrayed as a shameful, hidden act. As I perused my newTumbl feed recently, I was struck by how much the representation of male masturbation in pornography has changed in…
Jason Armstrong Releases New Book “The Happy Hypersexual”
In The Happy Hypersexual, Jason Armstrong explores emerging sexual identities that shape his and others mens’ worlds. Jason Armstrong is back! Armstrong (aka wildhorse100 on BateWorld) released his third book, The Happy Hypersexual, on Monday, November 2nd. As…
Having It All: My Masturbation Lifestyle
We can celebrate our own individual solo sex without hesitation, doubt or shame, coupled with the beauty of the other person’s display and pleasure. I am a 71 year old bisexual male; a passionate masturbator…
How Masturbation Can Ease Your Traumas And Help Reclaim Your Worthiness
Solosexuality has provided me the safe space that I need in order to take back my power. The first thing I did was panic. It was happening again and I felt it first in my…
Giving Your Penis A Break And Allowing Your Heart To Get What It Needs
It was difficult, in the beginning, to comprehend my feelings of horniness and not wanting to have any kind of sex; I wasn’t even in the mood to masturbate. Where did this feeling come from…
Exploring Your Sexual Evolution Can Enhance The Brotherhood For All
I sat on the corner of his bed pretending to read text messages and rapidly thinking about how to make the best escape. Perhaps it was the white Calvin Klein thong I decided to wear…
Cultivating Your Solo Sex Powers And Never Again Settling For Mediocre Sex
The process of unlearning the shame in masturbation can be daunting, but the rewards are glamorous. His apartment was spacious with touches of rustic modern flair that matched his woodsy urban aesthetic. His apartment felt…
