When Did You Discover You Were A Bator?
We here at The Bator Blog posted a poll on BateWorld asking “When did you discover you were a bator?” The responses poured in and we were amazed at how many of you wrote contemplatively…
One of the Great Benefits of Masturbating With Your Partner
The couple who masturbates together stays together One of the big additional “benefits” of masturbation, especially for hetero married couples, is that it helps bridge the often difficult period of menopause. This, of course,…
BATORMORPHOSIS: The Relationship Between Masturbation and Time
Masturbation AKA Time Well Spent In another thoughtful article, long-term blog contributor M.B. Timothy (Saboteur on BateWorld) writes on the relationship between masturbation and time. Speaking on themes he explores in his new book BATORMORPHOSIS,…
Ask The Batemaster: Is The Bate Anti-Social?
“The idea that masturbation is anti-social […] is just part of outdated anti-masturbation campaigns that linger from the last few centuries.” QUESTION: I do it with bate buds and in groups! To me, bating is…
Two Writers Talk Bate: An Interview with StrokingtheSoul
The tables have turned in this exclusive interview with BateWorld members wildhorse100 and StrokingtheSoul Not too long ago, writer Jason Armstrong (wildhorse100 on BateWorld) was interviewed by writer Anthony Ragonese (StrokingtheSoul on BateWorld). You can…
The Horndog and the Cockmonger: An Interview
Jason Armstrong (Wildhorse100) talks all things Solosexual with fellow Bateworld member StrokingtheSoul (Anthony) Jason Armstrong is the author of three books: Solosexual: Portrait of a Masturbator (2016), Getting Off: The Unlikely Chronicles of a Solosexual…
How To Negotiate Being A Bator In Love
“Honey… I’m a masturbator.” A relationship is important. It demands your respect. Futures together are worth it. Pasts spent together are to be cherished. Your relationship to yourself is just as sacred though. Your solosexuality…
Sides and Solosexuals: Challenging the Top and Bottom Dichotomy
What if you don’t identify as a “top” or a “bottom” or even “vers”? In gay male vernacular, the term “top” refers to the one who penetrates, and “bottom” is the one who receives. In…
Representation of Male Masturbation in Pornography
Male masturbation is no longer automatically portrayed as a shameful, hidden act. As I perused my newTumbl feed recently, I was struck by how much the representation of male masturbation in pornography has changed in…
Jason Armstrong Releases New Book “The Happy Hypersexual”
In The Happy Hypersexual, Jason Armstrong explores emerging sexual identities that shape his and others mens’ worlds. Jason Armstrong is back! Armstrong (aka wildhorse100 on BateWorld) released his third book, The Happy Hypersexual, on Monday, November 2nd. As…
Having It All: My Masturbation Lifestyle
We can celebrate our own individual solo sex without hesitation, doubt or shame, coupled with the beauty of the other person’s display and pleasure. I am a 71 year old bisexual male; a passionate masturbator…
How Masturbation Can Ease Your Traumas And Help Reclaim Your Worthiness
Solosexuality has provided me the safe space that I need in order to take back my power. The first thing I did was panic. It was happening again and I felt it first in my…
