Getting verbal with a buddy is a blast! But could it also be hot to get verbal when you are alone? The great thing about being a bator is figuring out your own methods (which…
What does it mean to me to be a bator? And what changed for me? I stumbled across BateWorld for the first time in 2014. I’m not sure exactly how I found it, but…
Jason Armstrong (Wildhorse100) talks all things Solosexual with fellow Bateworld member StrokingtheSoul (Anthony) Jason Armstrong is the author of three books: Solosexual: Portrait of a Masturbator (2016), Getting Off: The Unlikely Chronicles of a Solosexual…
What if you don’t identify as a “top” or a “bottom” or even “vers”? In gay male vernacular, the term “top” refers to the one who penetrates, and “bottom” is the one who receives. In…
Solosexuality has provided me the safe space that I need in order to take back my power. The first thing I did was panic. It was happening again and I felt it first in my…
This is a story of magic and self-love discoveries from Bateworld member Beastlybator. Similar to solosexual authors M. B. Timothy (Saboteur) and Jason Armstrong (Wildhorse100), Beastlybator shares his personal journey to finding himself, the discovery…
Do you have hangups that prevent you from meeting other bators for a bate sesh? We took to social media to find out where everyone is coming from and to shed some light on the…
Masturbation is not only sex; it is actually the original form of sex. QUESTION: When I heard some people say, “Masturbation is not sex,” I thought: “Wrong!” In fact, I have to say, for a…
On the cusp of releasing his second book about life as a solosexual, Jason Amstrong takes a trip down memory lane to a post he wrote on The Bator Blog years in 2016. Once upon…
A happy solosexual can develop strong, good self-esteem. QUESTION: I’m 23 now, but still have an erection a lot of the time, like in my late teens. Truth is, I’ve had plenty of sex with…
I know that most readers here probably don’t care who the butt players are, who the “bottoms” are or why because they (we) realize it’s part of our nature as men and as masturbators to explore all areas of yourself regardless of your sexuality. This is mainly for anyone who has ever considered touching their butthole, pleasuring it, asking their partner to, but felt concerned that maybe it means something else “Maybe I’m gay…”