Ask The Batemaster: What Is Jelqing? Should I Do It? Does It Work?
Personally, my advice is: Don’t do it. Here’s why. QUESTION: I’ve seen what you wrote about penis enlargement before, that there’s no safe, effective way with surgery or pills. Yeah. Masturbate a lot and keep…
What Is Toxic Masculinity?
Greetings my brother bators, This will be the first in a series of articles discussing the issues of toxic masculinity and how it impacts our bator community. It is my goal with these articles to…
Ask The Batemaster: Lingering Shame
Shame is something learned, usually from very early in life. However, I can offer you a way to gradually dissolve and finally eliminate such shame entirely! QUESTION: This is hard to admit to myself, because…
Overcoming Shame Associated With Masturbation
Shame, even as I type the term it makes me feel a certain type of embarrassment, repulsion, and judgement. Shame and masturbation have somewhat of a correlation to one another. At the heat of the…
Biaffectional Bicurious
(Note: This is another true story about bisexuality and the wins, and sometimes messiness, of navigating attractions and emotions in our own lives and in our friendships and marriages.) One day, “Gavin,” (not his real…
Ask The Batemaster: My Uncle Taught Me
There are numerous benefits to encouraging open and honest information and attitudes about male masturbation QUESTION: We’re not supposed to talk about family stuff like this on BW, I guess. But let me tell you,…
Ask The Batemaster: Am I Addicted?
Only you can determine how much masturbation might be enough for you. “Predictably, Porn Raises Its Head!” QUESTION: I really love to stroke to porn. I do it every day, sometimes for hours. Can’t seem…
Ask The Batemaster: JO Photos Leaked On The Web
Just accept full responsibility for everything you do, learn from the experience, and understand that you can never be truly responsible for what anyone else does. QUESTION: I’m not underage, but sometimes I wonder if…
Ask The Batemaster: I Saw My Real Brothers Bating Together
This is a sensitive subject, both in terms of Bateworld parameters and actual family life. I cannot condone what your brothers were doing or condemn it… QUESTION: There are a lot of guys in my…
Ask The Batemaster: Am I Evil?
*SPOILER ALERT—Anyone who might be seriously offended by a frank discussion of religion in relation to sexuality is welcome to skip this blog. QUESTION: Hopefully this is not too evil! I really get off on…
Ask The Batemaster: Showing Face & Shaving Pubes
QUESTION: I love BateWorld! The whole thing is just totally magical to me, a really important part of my life as a young man, and I mostly masturbate here, not to porn. Only I’ve got…
Ask The Batemaster: I Cum Too Fast! Can You Help Me?
Premature Ejaculation: There’s nothing to be ashamed of!
QUESTION: I’m 27 years old in the military, and this is really embarrassing. I guess you call it premature ejaculation. I’m ashamed to admit it. Really cramps my style. My penis is so incredibly sensitive, I just cum way too fast. With anyone else, or alone, either way. I can’t even edge at all. HELP ME!
RESPONSE: There’s nothing to be ashamed of here. You’re brave to speak out honestly on this. It’s a far more common issue for men than you might imagine. Also, there is the opposite issue, of guys who get hard and enjoy stimulation but have a difficult time getting to the orgasm. Your extreme sensitivity, I totally understand, because I was something like that myself until my early 40s, when I discovered what I call Mindful Masturbation. I’m still extremely sensitive, but I’ve learned to make ejaculation a choice. I learned to enjoy intense pure penis pleasure for as long and I want to stay in that glorious place indefinitely.
