QUESTION: Seriously! Don’t you think we could solve a lot of world problems if all sorts of men from all sorts of places start to masturbate for world peace together a lot more? I mean,…
QUESTION: I’ve read what you say about increasing pure penis pleasure in quantity and quality to gradually “burn away” masturbation shame and guilt. Your teachings have helped me increase the good part a lot, but…
Masturbation AKA Time Well Spent In another thoughtful article, long-term blog contributor M.B. Timothy (Saboteur on BateWorld) writes on the relationship between masturbation and time. Speaking on themes he explores in his new book BATORMORPHOSIS,…
“Edging Skills Are Not Easy For Me!” QUESTION: I’m working hard and practicing to become better at edging, even to masturbate mindfully. But I still ejaculate too easily, too soon, mainly because it just feels…
All men masturbate. All men enjoy masturbation. But some men feel less able to explore this part of themselves. For many of us, we have grown up with a story about how we should masturbate….
“Spiritual practices tend to be individual exploration of your own direct experience…” QUESTION: Don’t get me wrong: I love to bate! Only it’s gotta be a sin if anything is! Depravity and perversion are part…
Body image issues are an important topic and something I am particularly vocal about. Some readers may remember my article All Sizes Are Good Sizes: Celebrating Dick Diversity and Overcoming Societal Expectations. If you haven’t…
“…You are well on your way to liberation from such guilt and shame simply by being aware of it.” QUESTION: My family is not religious or conservative. But I still feel some guilt or shame…
“…You have evidently given yourself permission to enjoy pleasuring yourself, which is great, in itself!” QUESTION: I’m in my early 30s and still live with my loving parents, who are very religious. I masturbate a…
“I still feel some guilt and shame after I come…” QUESTION: I still feel some guilt and shame after I come. Even though I know better—I should not feel this. It’s not during the bate…
“They say it’s not real sex, that it’s only for losers…” QUESTION: My buddies at work and in the hood, all act weird because I’m pretty open and proud about how much I love the…
Male masturbation is no longer automatically portrayed as a shameful, hidden act. As I perused my newTumbl feed recently, I was struck by how much the representation of male masturbation in pornography has changed in…
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