Masturbation Celebration
When I told my friend, “Brett,” that I might be writing a personal story for Bateworld for International Bi Visibility Day (celebrated around the world on September 23rd each year), he wrote, “Well in my…
Ask The Batemaster: My Partner And I Bate With Other Guys, But…
QUESTION: We’re a happy couple: I’m 41 and my partner is 37. We’re not married, but we love each other a lot. Both of us adore the bate as much as anything, except maybe oral…
Ask The Batemaster: Am I Sort Of Gay? Maybe Bi?
QUESTION: College Sophomore here, and I’ve had sex with several women, so I figure I’m straight. I’m on BW and I also love to see penises and guys jacking, only most dudes do, right? Still,…
Jason Armstrong Revisits The Beginning Of His Life As A Solosexual
On the cusp of releasing his second book about life as a solosexual, Jason Amstrong takes a trip down memory lane to a post he wrote on The Bator Blog years in 2016. Once upon…
Upping Your Sexual Confidence
Sex-periential lessons from a bating sexologist, Dr. Jallen Rix (hand2rod) One of the questions I get most as a sexologist is “Doc, how can I be more sexually confident?” It’s a great question, and in…
The Truth About Male Orgasms
[REPUBLISH] This essay was originally published in two parts in September 2016 and now republished June 2019 with additional information and facts. Life After “The Little Death” We are taught that as men we build to…
Ask The Batemaster: Should I Tell My Boyfriend I Need More?
When you can both be open to it, honest communication makes all the difference in the world! QUESTION: My boyfriend of nearly a year is totally adorable. It’s more than sexual, but a lot of…
Ask The Batemaster: My Uncle Taught Me
There are numerous benefits to encouraging open and honest information and attitudes about male masturbation QUESTION: We’re not supposed to talk about family stuff like this on BW, I guess. But let me tell you,…
Ask The Batemaster: Military Strategies
Never underestimate the power of cultural conditioning, my Phallic Brother! QUESTION: I saw your column about guys jerking together in the military, and the comment from a veteran who said he never heard of it….
SOLOPHILIA: A 21st Century Sexuality by M. B. Timothy (Saboteur)
In this new post, M.B. Timothy (Saboteur on Bateworld), exalts solosexuality as an act of goodwill which benefits all. This essay is about the very modern sex lives of masturbators – the intersection of pleasure, technology and…
Masturbation Is Sex, Duh!
The discussion about whether masturbation is sex or whether it is an aperitif before sex takes place (either as a prelude to intercourse or practice/substitute for the “real thing”) is one that likely won’t be…
Bi Bators Come In All Flavors
One of the most important lessons my wife and I learned as we were opening up our marriage is that just because I masturbate with guys doesn’t mean I love her any less. In my…
