“…just seeing a penis, still always thrills me to my core!” QUESTION: I am pretty much single-minded! My earliest memory is of how penises rocked my world, even then! Ever since, I’ve had a major…

“Honey… I’m a masturbator.” A relationship is important. It demands your respect. Futures together are worth it. Pasts spent together are to be cherished. Your relationship to yourself is just as sacred though. Your solosexuality…

I want to make more noise! QUESTION: I see where you say making more noise helps guys feel more. You say we learn to be quiet as boys, not to attract attention. Well, I’m an…

BateWorld is clarifying its content guidelines regarding membership. We hope to continually evolve and grow and become more compassionate.  When we started the site over ten years ago, we wanted to create a community that…

Somehow totally naked guys aren’t quite so exciting to me! Is this weird? What do you think about this? QUESTION: I’m wondering about myself. I am most turned on by seeing guys partly dressed and…

Please explain the (Solo) Sex Magick thing… QUESTION: Your protégé Dragon Puppy often talks about semen retention and Sex Magick. Can you please explain in simple terms just how this stuff works? RESPONSE: It’s my…

Shame is something learned, usually from very early in life. However, I can offer you a way to gradually dissolve and finally eliminate such shame entirely! QUESTION: This is hard to admit to myself, because…

While the penis is what keeps most Bators connected, I’ve come to understand that we have a fundamental theme that brings us closer than dong.  This theme is connection. When I reminisce about the beginning…

My “straight” bud and I have a kind of real bromance going, and do an awful lot of stuff together, but…   QUESTION: My “straight” bud and I have a kind of real bromance going,…

…Respect how someone wants to be seen, and how they view themselves. QUESTION: I met a really handsome bearded guy in a chat room, and we agreed to masturbate on cam. After a while, when…

In The Happy Hypersexual, Jason Armstrong explores emerging sexual identities that shape his and others mens’ worlds. Jason Armstrong is back!  Armstrong (aka wildhorse100 on BateWorld) released his third book, The Happy Hypersexual, on Monday, November 2nd.  As…

Mindful Masturbation can improve self-esteem…I suggest a classic “Love Yourself” mirror exercise. QUESTION: In my late teens I suffered a serious sexual trauma. I won’t give details, not to be a bummer, and I’m not…