Ask The Batemaster: My Uncle Taught Me
There are numerous benefits to encouraging open and honest information and attitudes about male masturbation QUESTION: We’re not supposed to talk about family stuff like this on BW, I guess. But let me tell you,…
Ask The Batemaster: Military Strategies
Never underestimate the power of cultural conditioning, my Phallic Brother! QUESTION: I saw your column about guys jerking together in the military, and the comment from a veteran who said he never heard of it….
SOLOPHILIA: A 21st Century Sexuality by M. B. Timothy (Saboteur)
In this new post, M.B. Timothy (Saboteur on Bateworld), exalts solosexuality as an act of goodwill which benefits all. This essay is about the very modern sex lives of masturbators – the intersection of pleasure, technology and…
Masturbation Is Sex, Duh!
The discussion about whether masturbation is sex or whether it is an aperitif before sex takes place (either as a prelude to intercourse or practice/substitute for the “real thing”) is one that likely won’t be…
Bi Bators Come In All Flavors
One of the most important lessons my wife and I learned as we were opening up our marriage is that just because I masturbate with guys doesn’t mean I love her any less. In my…
Ask The Batemaster: Is Solosexuality Anti-Social?
A happy solosexual can develop strong, good self-esteem. QUESTION: I’m 23 now, but still have an erection a lot of the time, like in my late teens. Truth is, I’ve had plenty of sex with…
Masturbation and Marriage Can Go Hand in Hand
In Shere Hite’s 1981 classic “Hite Report on Male Sexuality” she famously found that 43% of teenage boys experimented sexually with other boys (usually through group or mutual masturbation) and this had no effect on…
From The Bi Side
Let me start by saying, to me, in my everyday life, labels don’t exist therefore I choose not to label myself, but for all sake and purposes to bring some clarity to those that may…
Ask The Batemaster: Asking A Friend To Bate
The best approach may be to tell him about yourself, in terms of some of the things that turn you on, without getting too specific… QUESTION: My best friend and I jacked off together ever…
Masturbation Affirmation: Overcoming Shame
In another revealing post M.B. Timothy (Saboteur on Bateworld) touches on feelings of shame around masturbation. He also explains how we can overcome it. This is an excerpt from Timothy’s book CEDAR: An Ode To Masturbation, available…
Living As A Solosexual: A Manifesto
Being an open solosexual is something M.B. Timothy (Saboteur on Bateworld) knows well and celebrates the relationship he has with himself proudly. Timothy has been published on The Bator Blog where he wrote the popular…
BateWorld on BuzzFeed
Recently Bateworld was cited in an article on BuzzFeed titled “Why Some Guys Like Jerking Off Together” and now many more men are finding out what most of us masturbators have known for some time…
