Ask The Batemaster: Holiday Surprise
QUESTION: I’ve been widowed for many years, and now I have family in my home for the holidays. I was up to pee one night and happened to notice my college-age grandson with his door…
Biaffectional Bicurious
(Note: This is another true story about bisexuality and the wins, and sometimes messiness, of navigating attractions and emotions in our own lives and in our friendships and marriages.) One day, “Gavin,” (not his real…
Ask The Batemaster: Is This Taboo? It’s Just Fantasy…
“It’s harmless if you are not so obsessed that it prevents you from enjoying other things.” QUESTION: I don’t really want to bate with my older brother, even though he’s hot! I know it would…
Ask The Batemaster: Bisexuality Is Real
Bisexuality really exists. QUESTION: I’m truly bisexual. With women I do whatever they like, and they seem to really appreciate me. With guys I actually understand better what they really want, and I get good…
Celebrate Bi Visibility Day!
Happy International Bi Visibility Day! Bi Invisibility? Monday, September 23rd is International Bi Visibility Day a.k.a. Celebrate Bisexuality Day. For most of us who are bi, we know why this is a day (and week and month) to celebrate, but…
Ask The Batemaster: I Think I’m Gay…
QUESTION: I’m 26 and live outside the USA in a different culture, so I’m not embarrassed to admit I’m still a virgin. I am a member of BW and love to see the penises, erections,…
Masturbation Celebration
When I told my friend, “Brett,” that I might be writing a personal story for Bateworld for International Bi Visibility Day (celebrated around the world on September 23rd each year), he wrote, “Well in my…
Ask The Batemaster: My Partner And I Bate With Other Guys, But…
QUESTION: We’re a happy couple: I’m 41 and my partner is 37. We’re not married, but we love each other a lot. Both of us adore the bate as much as anything, except maybe oral…
Ask The Batemaster: Am I Sort Of Gay? Maybe Bi?
QUESTION: College Sophomore here, and I’ve had sex with several women, so I figure I’m straight. I’m on BW and I also love to see penises and guys jacking, only most dudes do, right? Still,…
Jason Armstrong Revisits The Beginning Of His Life As A Solosexual
On the cusp of releasing his second book about life as a solosexual, Jason Amstrong takes a trip down memory lane to a post he wrote on The Bator Blog years in 2016. Once upon…
Upping Your Sexual Confidence
Sex-periential lessons from a bating sexologist, Dr. Jallen Rix (hand2rod) One of the questions I get most as a sexologist is “Doc, how can I be more sexually confident?” It’s a great question, and in…
The Truth About Male Orgasms
[REPUBLISH] This essay was originally published in two parts in September 2016 and now republished June 2019 with additional information and facts. Life After “The Little Death” We are taught that as men we build to…
