Ask The Batemaster: My Grandpa Masturbates
Everybody and my grandpa masturbates QUESTION: Everybody and my grandpa masturbates. I’m 20 and still live with my folks, but they won’t talk about sex at all. There is nothing improper about what I’m about…
Ask The Batemaster: To Eat or Not to Eat My Buddies Cum
Sublime Slime? Or Stupid Risk? QUESTION: My bate buddy always eats his cum, and at first, I always thought that was way gross. But he persuaded me to try it, and I did, and now…
Ask The Batemaster: Bators Are Winners
QUESTION: Growing up, I always heard that jerking-off was the same as wasting time. Masturbators were losers. Now, I know better. Bators are winners and I love it, but that shadow of doubt is still…
Ask The Batemaster: Mutual Exposure
QUESTION: My buddy likes me to watch him jerk off, but he won’t let me do it at the same time except with a hand inside my shorts. Doesn’t want to see my penis so…
Ask The Batemaster: The Right Touch
“There are all sorts of subtle nuances to masturbatory pleasure, which involve pressure, tempos, particular strokes, the right touch, even fetishes and other aspects of arousal.” QUESTION: I’m in University and my roomies all love…
Ask The Batemaster: I Just Wanna Watch Other Guys JO
QUESTION: My best buddy is kind of versatile like me, only he also likes standard gay porn a lot. All I really want to see is guys JO, not even other gay sex. I like…
Ask The Batemaster: Edging Skills
“Edging Skills Are Not Easy For Me!” QUESTION: I’m working hard and practicing to become better at edging, even to masturbate mindfully. But I still ejaculate too easily, too soon, mainly because it just feels…
How You Can Overcome Masturbation Shame
In another revealing post M.B. Timothy ( Saboteur on BateWorld ) talks about overcoming masturbation shame. He also explains how we can overcome it. This is an excerpt from Timothy’s book CEDAR: An Ode To…
Ask The Batemaster: Chastity Cages & The Bate
I love self-pleasuring but also into cages. Can you unite being a bator and being caged? QUESTION: I always had problems with my masculinity below my waist. I wanted to shut myself up with a…
Study on Aging and Sexual Satisfaction Among Gay Men (Study now closed)
Update 5.17.22 – This study is now closed! Thanks to SASSY for the research and for BateWorld and its members for taking part. SASSY: Study on Aging and Sexual Satisfaction among Gay Men Michigan State…
Ask The Batemaster: My Partner Doesn’t Like Me To Masturbate
“…And I can’t do it at home unless he’s gone out. I hate sneaking around, but I do love to bate! Help!” QUESTION: After many years single and lonely, I’ve got a great partner and…
Ask The Batemater: Masturbation, Vivid Dreams, and a Novel Series
Masturbation, Vivid Dreams, and a Novel Series QUESTION: In one blog, Bruce, you talked about reading and about characters in books that masturbate. Can you tell a little about the ones in your own books…
