“It never helps to compare yourself with others, especially in the department of appearance […] This is an extremely common trap the ego falls into.” QUESTION: Sites like Facebook, gay men’s pages, and a lot…

Self confidence leads to sexual confidence and vice-versa! During this time of COVID-19, physical distancing, staying home, etc. we’re all scrambling to stay alert, informed, keep busy, stay working, helping in ways we can to…

Sex-periential lessons from a bating sexologist, Dr. Jallen Rix (hand2rod) One of the questions I get most as a sexologist is “Doc, how can I be more sexually confident?” It’s a great question, and in…

You are the only one who can actually do something about how you feel. QUESTION: I’m in my 60s and not in bad shape, but no matter how I try with diet and exercise, I…