The process of unlearning the shame in masturbation can be daunting, but the rewards are glamorous. His apartment was spacious with touches of rustic modern flair that matched his woodsy urban aesthetic. His apartment felt…
Choose someone that wants your type of sex, and you’re well on your way to creating a beautiful sex life. The sound of defeat in my friend’s voice slowly transformed into frustration and then concluded…
Self confidence leads to sexual confidence and vice-versa! During this time of COVID-19, physical distancing, staying home, etc. we’re all scrambling to stay alert, informed, keep busy, stay working, helping in ways we can to…
Do you have hangups that prevent you from meeting other bators for a bate sesh? We took to social media to find out where everyone is coming from and to shed some light on the…
HARD to believe it’s been almost a year since my last guest blog article, “Hardware Gear For The DL” so if you missed that one, click on the link to catch up on how my…
In any significant relationship it’s best to always be honest, if possible. QUESTION: Sometimes I use my phone to record myself stroking one out, especially when I’m parked in my car. The other day my…
“You’re fortunate if your wife truly accepts your need for some private time to masturbate online.” QUESTION: I’m a young father of 3 kids under age 7. My wife and I still have sex (when…
You deserve to enjoy as much erotic pleasure as you can provide yourself. QUESTION: We’ve been together 5 mostly wonderful years, my partner and I. Had sex a lot the first couple years, now hardly…
When you can both be open to it, honest communication makes all the difference in the world! QUESTION: My boyfriend of nearly a year is totally adorable. It’s more than sexual, but a lot of…
Let’s face it, all bators, straight, bi, or gay, reach a place when we acknowledge that the pleasure our swollen penis brings us can no longer be denied (except for cum denial, of course, but…
I’m sure he watches because it excites him, and he’s secretly stroking too. At the very least, it probably gives him an erection also. QUESTION: I share a dorm room at a Christian college, and…
This is very private behavior you are speaking of (normally) and technically, it is strongly tabooed. QUESTION: I’ve always told my boys they have the right to privacy in their room. Recently late one night…