When you can both be open to it, honest communication makes all the difference in the world! QUESTION: My boyfriend of nearly a year is totally adorable. It’s more than sexual, but a lot of…

Let’s face it, all bators, straight, bi, or gay, reach a place when we acknowledge that the pleasure our swollen penis brings us can no longer be denied (except for cum denial, of course, but…

I’m sure he watches because it excites him, and he’s secretly stroking too. At the very least, it probably gives him an erection also. QUESTION: I share a dorm room at a Christian college, and…

This is very private behavior you are speaking of (normally) and technically, it is strongly tabooed. QUESTION: I’ve always told my boys they have the right to privacy in their room. Recently late one night…

Let’s flip the script, shall we. The Bateworld community is filled with all types of men of many different orientations. It’s what makes it a welcoming, colorful, awesome place; it’d be boring otherwise. Out of…

One of the most important lessons my wife and I learned as we were opening up our marriage is that just because I masturbate with guys doesn’t mean I love her any less. In my…

A happy solosexual can develop strong, good self-esteem. QUESTION: I’m 23 now, but still have an erection a lot of the time, like in my late teens. Truth is, I’ve had plenty of sex with…

If you get too possessive of anyone, that can easily lead to problems, even estrangement. QUESTION: My best friend and I love to masturbate together. We’ve done this since we were way too young to…

How do I tell my partner I’m a masturbator? QUESTION: My sex life with my partner is very healthy. How do I bring up my masturbation addiction to them, especially considering that I’m a chronic…