Ask The Batemaster: Why Does He Need An Audience?
“My boyfriend has trouble getting off with me, but has no trouble staying hard and blowing his wad when our bate buddies are involved…” QUESTION: My boyfriend and I love to bate together, as…
Ask The Batemaster: I Can’t Stop Thinking of Penises and Masturbation
They’re just always on my mind… QUESTION: I just think about penises and masturbation all the time! Almost every guy I see, good-looking or not, that’s what I really want. I mean, I want to…
Ask The Batemaster: Bate Buddy Jealousy
If this man is truly your best friend, his happiness must be at least as important as your own. QUESTION: My best friend and I love to masturbate together, and we do this a…
Why Bate Dates Are The Best Dates
Before becoming a dedicated BateWorld member, I wasn’t aware that guys all over the world were having “bate dates.” I’m so grateful I learned, as bate dates are now by far my favorite kind of…
How To Negotiate Being A Bator In Love
“Honey… I’m a masturbator.” A relationship is important. It demands your respect. Futures together are worth it. Pasts spent together are to be cherished. Your relationship to yourself is just as sacred though. Your solosexuality…
Having It All: My Masturbation Lifestyle
We can celebrate our own individual solo sex without hesitation, doubt or shame, coupled with the beauty of the other person’s display and pleasure. I am a 71 year old bisexual male; a passionate masturbator…
How Masturbation Can Ease Your Traumas And Help Reclaim Your Worthiness
Solosexuality has provided me the safe space that I need in order to take back my power. The first thing I did was panic. It was happening again and I felt it first in my…
Giving Your Penis A Break And Allowing Your Heart To Get What It Needs
It was difficult, in the beginning, to comprehend my feelings of horniness and not wanting to have any kind of sex; I wasn’t even in the mood to masturbate. Where did this feeling come from…
Ask The Batemaster: Guys Compliment My Penis, But My GF Never Does
The penis tends to impress men more than it impresses women. QUESTION: I live with my girlfriend and we do have sex pretty often, at least once or twice a week, and I guess I…
Bisexual Awareness Week: Finding Your Tribe
Our bisexual longtime friend, ‘Danny,’ came over for dinner the other night. With COVID, we eat safely outside in our screened-in porch. Since it’s S FL my friend asked if we should dress for heat….
Exploring Your Sexual Evolution Can Enhance The Brotherhood For All
I sat on the corner of his bed pretending to read text messages and rapidly thinking about how to make the best escape. Perhaps it was the white Calvin Klein thong I decided to wear…
Cultivating Your Solo Sex Powers And Never Again Settling For Mediocre Sex
The process of unlearning the shame in masturbation can be daunting, but the rewards are glamorous. His apartment was spacious with touches of rustic modern flair that matched his woodsy urban aesthetic. His apartment felt…
