I can hardly squeeze out a drop! How can I make more? QUESTION: Some of my online bate buds (these days they are all online!) make loads of precum, like it pours out! I can…

Foreskin is one of my favorite phallic subjects. I have been educating people about the joys of foreskin for many years. I talk about my own and show it off quite a bit. I have…

Generally, as a rule of thumb (+ other thumb, all fingers, and both rosy palms!), the more lube the better. QUESTION: I used to love Albolene for jerking off, but you converted me to coconut…

For many men this is quite common during edging, and not likely to represent any particular problem with your internal plumbing. QUESTION: When I edge real intensely, sometimes a little bit of semen comes out,…

This is not a matter of control; it is a matter of self-awareness and making ejaculation a choice. QUESTION: I’m home from college social distancing, but my family respects my privacy. A guy asked you…

Though every man loves ejaculation, there are great rewards beyond it! QUESTION: Hi Bate Master Bruce! I’m in my 80’s, and still masturbate often, usually every day. Most often I don’t even need a pill…

The most effective means of restoring penis head sensitivity is to always use lubrication from now on… QUESTION: My dick is cut, and the head seems to have lost a lot of sensitivity. I know…

Things that may help: good hydration, drink plenty of water, take Vitamin E… QUESTION: My favorite lube is precum. I often get quite a bit and can use it as a main lube on the…

No doubt a foreskin is a marvelous thing… QUESTION: Still in my early twenties here. My foreskin was very tight, and not easy to push down past the head onto the shaft. Always washed carefully…

In my experience it seems best to just be straightforward. QUESTION: I really appreciate that you answered my question about explaining to guys why I like to retain my semen, instead of ejaculating so often….

This situation, medically called “phimosis,” may prove quite limiting to the full erotic enjoyment of your penis. QUESTION: My foreskin is way too tight, and I can’t comfortably get it back past the head of…

Premature Ejaculation: There’s nothing to be ashamed of!

QUESTION: I’m 27 years old in the military, and this is really embarrassing. I guess you call it premature ejaculation. I’m ashamed to admit it. Really cramps my style. My penis is so incredibly sensitive, I just cum way too fast. With anyone else, or alone, either way. I can’t even edge at all. HELP ME!

RESPONSE: There’s nothing to be ashamed of here. You’re brave to speak out honestly on this. It’s a far more common issue for men than you might imagine. Also, there is the opposite issue, of guys who get hard and enjoy stimulation but have a difficult time getting to the orgasm. Your extreme sensitivity, I totally understand, because I was something like that myself until my early 40s, when I discovered what I call Mindful Masturbation. I’m still extremely sensitive, but I’ve learned to make ejaculation a choice. I learned to enjoy intense pure penis pleasure for as long and I want to stay in that glorious place indefinitely.