Ask The Batemaster: Semen Leakage
For many men this is quite common during edging, and not likely to represent any particular problem with your internal plumbing. QUESTION: When I edge real intensely, sometimes a little bit of semen comes out,…
Ask The Batemaster: Help! I Keep Coming Prematurely
This is not a matter of control; it is a matter of self-awareness and making ejaculation a choice. QUESTION: I’m home from college social distancing, but my family respects my privacy. A guy asked you…
Ask The Batemaster: After Ejaculation Exhaustion
Though every man loves ejaculation, there are great rewards beyond it! QUESTION: Hi Bate Master Bruce! I’m in my 80’s, and still masturbate often, usually every day. Most often I don’t even need a pill…
Ask The Batemaster: Increasing Precum
Things that may help: good hydration, drink plenty of water, take Vitamin E… QUESTION: My favorite lube is precum. I often get quite a bit and can use it as a main lube on the…
Ask The Batemaster: Is Circumcision Okay?
No doubt a foreskin is a marvelous thing… QUESTION: Still in my early twenties here. My foreskin was very tight, and not easy to push down past the head onto the shaft. Always washed carefully…
Ask The Batemaster: I Have Orgasms, But I Don’t Ejaculate
QUESTION: After prostate surgery, I’m lucky. I don’t ejaculate, though I sometimes ooze a little. I do have great erections and have wonderful orgasms, though. I’m 72 and in pretty good shape, so I wonder……
Ask The Batemaster: I Cum Too Fast! Can You Help Me?
Premature Ejaculation: There’s nothing to be ashamed of!
QUESTION: I’m 27 years old in the military, and this is really embarrassing. I guess you call it premature ejaculation. I’m ashamed to admit it. Really cramps my style. My penis is so incredibly sensitive, I just cum way too fast. With anyone else, or alone, either way. I can’t even edge at all. HELP ME!
RESPONSE: There’s nothing to be ashamed of here. You’re brave to speak out honestly on this. It’s a far more common issue for men than you might imagine. Also, there is the opposite issue, of guys who get hard and enjoy stimulation but have a difficult time getting to the orgasm. Your extreme sensitivity, I totally understand, because I was something like that myself until my early 40s, when I discovered what I call Mindful Masturbation. I’m still extremely sensitive, but I’ve learned to make ejaculation a choice. I learned to enjoy intense pure penis pleasure for as long and I want to stay in that glorious place indefinitely.
