Sublime Slime? Or Stupid Risk? QUESTION: My bate buddy always eats his cum, and at first, I always thought that was way gross. But he persuaded me to try it, and I did, and now…

QUESTION: I’m a huge pre-cummer most of the time solo. But on cam with other guys, often it won’t flow so much. I brag about it, then disappoint. And during the day at work, sometimes…

For many men this is quite common during edging, and not likely to represent any particular problem with your internal plumbing. QUESTION: When I edge real intensely, sometimes a little bit of semen comes out,…

This is not a matter of control; it is a matter of self-awareness and making ejaculation a choice. QUESTION: I’m home from college social distancing, but my family respects my privacy. A guy asked you…

Though every man loves ejaculation, there are great rewards beyond it! QUESTION: Hi Bate Master Bruce! I’m in my 80’s, and still masturbate often, usually every day. Most often I don’t even need a pill…

Things that may help: good hydration, drink plenty of water, take Vitamin E… QUESTION: My favorite lube is precum. I often get quite a bit and can use it as a main lube on the…

No doubt a foreskin is a marvelous thing… QUESTION: Still in my early twenties here. My foreskin was very tight, and not easy to push down past the head onto the shaft. Always washed carefully…

QUESTION: After prostate surgery, I’m lucky. I don’t ejaculate, though I sometimes ooze a little. I do have great erections and have wonderful orgasms, though. I’m 72 and in pretty good shape, so I wonder……

Premature Ejaculation: There’s nothing to be ashamed of!

QUESTION: I’m 27 years old in the military, and this is really embarrassing. I guess you call it premature ejaculation. I’m ashamed to admit it. Really cramps my style. My penis is so incredibly sensitive, I just cum way too fast. With anyone else, or alone, either way. I can’t even edge at all. HELP ME!

RESPONSE: There’s nothing to be ashamed of here. You’re brave to speak out honestly on this. It’s a far more common issue for men than you might imagine. Also, there is the opposite issue, of guys who get hard and enjoy stimulation but have a difficult time getting to the orgasm. Your extreme sensitivity, I totally understand, because I was something like that myself until my early 40s, when I discovered what I call Mindful Masturbation. I’m still extremely sensitive, but I’ve learned to make ejaculation a choice. I learned to enjoy intense pure penis pleasure for as long and I want to stay in that glorious place indefinitely.