Ask The Batemaster: Porn & Mindful Masturbation
“Mindfulness is about nothing more than intense alertness, being really present in the moment where you are and in your own body. Keeping focus on yourself.” QUESTION: You sometimes say that using a lot of…
Ask The Batemaster: Are My Fantasies “Evil”?
Consider whether anyone or you yourself are harmed or beset by guilt about it. QUESTION: I have really hot fantasies, which are nothing truly violent, though I don’t think they’re entirely legal. For sure, it’s…
Ask The Batemaster: What’s Wrong With Porn?
There is nothing morally wrong with porn, so long as no one is harmed by its production… QUESTION: Hey, Bate Master Bruce! Hail Penis! I’m totally addicted! I always bate to porn, but you sometimes…
Ask The Batemaster: Addicted & Impotent at 27
…Return more attention to yourself, or to real-life masturbation buddies, either online or in person. QUESTION: I’m totally addicted to porn, and I can’t masturbate without it. I’m 27-years-old, and I can hardly get a…
The Online Option AKA “Cybersex”
Most of the articles my wife and I have written so far for the Masturbation Has No Orientation column on The Bator Blog have dealt with real life J/O sessions with other guys. I’ve been fortunate…
What Does “Watching Porn” Even Mean?
It’s time we talk directly about masturbation as masturbation, the way images are incorporated into our masturbatory expression with a sense of playful exploration of what we find sexually appealing. People need to be called out to stop the euphemisms and speak directly about the subject before we can take the discussion seriously.
