Ask The Batemaster: Hormones and Masturbation
QUESTION: I’ve heard about dopamine and this other “feel good” stuff in the brain, which increases while I masturbate. I do use some porn and sometimes bate online with guys. But whenever I come, pretty…
Ask The Batemaster: Erotic Literature and Greek Satyrs
QUESTION: Something I totally agree with you on, Bruce, is something a lot of BW members might not. Online porn is not truly the best way to fly high in the bate for me. You…
Ask The Batemaster: I Just Wanna Watch Other Guys JO
QUESTION: My best buddy is kind of versatile like me, only he also likes standard gay porn a lot. All I really want to see is guys JO, not even other gay sex. I like…
Wisdom for Aspiring Masturbators: A New Year’s Top Ten List
Masturbators, as the New Year rolls in I have been reflecting on one of my favorite subjects: masturbation. I am a masturbation advocate with a lifelong intellectual interest in male masturbation. I have enjoyed several…
Ask The Batemaster: Totally Naked Men Excite Me Less
QUESTION: I get turned on and jack off almost exclusively to images of shirtless men: bare chests, pecs, nips, abs, ribcages, and hairy pits. I like a treasure trail, but where it leads is less…
Ask The Batemaster: Porn & Mindful Masturbation
“Mindfulness is about nothing more than intense alertness, being really present in the moment where you are and in your own body. Keeping focus on yourself.” QUESTION: You sometimes say that using a lot of…
Ask The Batemaster: Are My Fantasies “Evil”?
Consider whether anyone or you yourself are harmed or beset by guilt about it. QUESTION: I have really hot fantasies, which are nothing truly violent, though I don’t think they’re entirely legal. For sure, it’s…
Ask The Batemaster: What’s Wrong With Porn?
There is nothing morally wrong with porn, so long as no one is harmed by its production… QUESTION: Hey, Bate Master Bruce! Hail Penis! I’m totally addicted! I always bate to porn, but you sometimes…
Ask The Batemaster: Addicted & Impotent at 27
…Return more attention to yourself, or to real-life masturbation buddies, either online or in person. QUESTION: I’m totally addicted to porn, and I can’t masturbate without it. I’m 27-years-old, and I can hardly get a…
The Online Option AKA “Cybersex”
Most of the articles my wife and I have written so far for the Masturbation Has No Orientation column on The Bator Blog have dealt with real life J/O sessions with other guys. I’ve been fortunate…
What Does “Watching Porn” Even Mean?
It’s time we talk directly about masturbation as masturbation, the way images are incorporated into our masturbatory expression with a sense of playful exploration of what we find sexually appealing. People need to be called out to stop the euphemisms and speak directly about the subject before we can take the discussion seriously.
