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Masturbation Is Sex, Duh!

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The discussion about whether masturbation is sex or whether it…
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Ask The Batemaster: Am I Addicted?

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Only you can determine how much masturbation might be enough…
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Ask The Batemaster: I Saw My Real Brothers Bating Together

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This is a sensitive subject, both in terms of Bateworld parameters…
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Ask The Batemaster: Asking A Friend To Bate

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The best approach may be to tell him about yourself, in terms…
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Ask The Batemaster: Animal Phallus

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This is a really intriguing subject, and there’s nothing wrong…
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Ask The Batemaster: I Get Off Watching My Brother Online, Is This Wrong?

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Your reaction sounds honest and natural, but only you can decide…
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Ask The Batemaster: We're Both Straight, But He Wants To Touch Me

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This friend and I are both straight, but we like to watch porn together. Of course, we both end up jacking off, only he looks at me a lot. I can tell he wants to touch me, and who knows? Maybe more. How can I tell him No?
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Ask The Batemaster: Sexual Fantasies

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Distinguishing your fantasies vs. realities is important!

QUESTION: Is it wrong to fantasize about something that could be immoral, or even illegal while I masturbate? Some of those things just turn me on so intensely, man, like nothing else!
 
RESPONSE: Many people assume that fantasizing is what masturbation is all about. Of course, creative self-pleasure has many other major delicious facets. You can make a case for the fact that watching and listening to porn is a form of media-assisted fantasy, because you use the images that arouse you to stimulate your pleasure, and yet it remains vicarious. It is not what is actually happening here and now, though your sensations are real. But live-action porn did happen somewhere at some time and was recorded for an audience.

Ask The Batemaster: Can You Masturbate Too Much?

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I'm totally addicted! QUESTION: Is it true that you can masturbate…

What Does "Watching Porn" Even Mean?

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It’s time we talk directly about masturbation as masturbation, the way images are incorporated into our masturbatory expression with a sense of playful exploration of what we find sexually appealing. People need to be called out to stop the euphemisms and speak directly about the subject before we can take the discussion seriously.
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Ask The Batemaster: Lube, Dry Skin and Porn

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To Lube or Not to Lube?

QUESTION:I typically masturbate without lube or lotion because I sit at the computer to chat, flip through porn, or have phone sex. I am worried that my penis is getting damaged due to dry skin, but I don’t want to get my computer/phone covered in lube. Any thoughts on this?