When you retain your semen, you may enjoy a lot more pleasure overall. You are ready for erotic play at any moment. QUESTION: You sometimes talk about retaining semen, and in your videos you hardly…

Sex-periential lessons from a bating sexologist, Dr. Jallen Rix (hand2rod) One of the questions I get most as a sexologist is “Doc, how can I be more sexually confident?” It’s a great question, and in…

I used to think a cock ring was just a cock ring… until I tried the Atom Plus from Hot Octopuss! This thing packs a punch that you aren’t expecting. Most cock rings, whether metal…

[REPUBLISH] This essay was originally published in two parts in September 2016 and now republished June 2019 with additional information and facts. Life After “The Little Death” We are taught that as men we build to…

For a man to sleep naked allows you in gentle and pleasurable ways to feel your genitals against nice bedding. QUESTION: On TV and in films I see how guys sometimes sleep in PJs or…

Among the core factors, actually, is to be sure not to ignore your testicles. QUESTION: I love my balls! Not necessarily more than my penis, I guess, but just as much in some ways. They…

All erotic enjoyment can be considered good, healthy and psychologically beneficial. QUESTION: Seriously. I think masturbation rocks way beyond any religion! Am I evil? RESPONSE: Not at all. With all due respect for the fact…

The discussion about whether masturbation is sex or whether it is an aperitif before sex takes place (either as a prelude to intercourse or practice/substitute for the “real thing”) is one that likely won’t be…

Something I urge you to consider, regardless of how often or how rarely you decide to ejaculate is this: HONOR YOUR SEMEN! QUESTION: I love the bate as much as anything in life, but the…

There are countless lubes out there — and, of course, the option of none at all — to bring your bate from fun to fantastic. I discovered coconut oil as a bate aid through a friend…

In another revealing post M.B. Timothy (Saboteur on Bateworld) touches on feelings of shame around masturbation. He also explains how we can overcome it. This is an excerpt from Timothy’s book CEDAR: An Ode To Masturbation, available…

Guys get conditioned in their teens to believe orgasm and ejaculation have to go together, and that ejaculation is the ultimate, only this is not necessarily the case. QUESTION: Hey, Bruce, I really “get” the…