The couple who masturbates together stays together   One of the big additional “benefits” of masturbation, especially for hetero married couples, is that it helps bridge the often difficult period of menopause.  This, of course,…

“…And I can’t do it at home unless he’s gone out. I hate sneaking around, but I do love to bate! Help!” QUESTION: After many years single and lonely, I’ve got a great partner and…

“Honey… I’m a masturbator.” A relationship is important. It demands your respect. Futures together are worth it. Pasts spent together are to be cherished. Your relationship to yourself is just as sacred though. Your solosexuality…

In any significant relationship it’s best to always be honest, if possible. QUESTION: Sometimes I use my phone to record myself stroking one out, especially when I’m parked in my car. The other day my…

When you can both be open to it, honest communication makes all the difference in the world! QUESTION: My boyfriend of nearly a year is totally adorable. It’s more than sexual, but a lot of…

Often you might find men of the community come and go and come back again. One can never really pinpoint the reasoning, and maybe they don’t know either, perhaps they just needed a break. One day you meet a cool bator, chat, bate, connect, and the next day his profile is gone. Did he get cold feet? Does he feel ashamed? They are all valid questions that deserve some answering and elaborating.

A happy solosexual can develop strong, good self-esteem. QUESTION: I’m 23 now, but still have an erection a lot of the time, like in my late teens. Truth is, I’ve had plenty of sex with…

At this big company where I work, there’s this handsome guy with a little dark beard, who I don’t really know. For the third time, I’m in the restroom and at the urinal he “shows hard,” so we go in a stall and jack each other to incredible orgasms. Now I’ve snooped a little and found out he’s married, with one little kid and another on the way. Is it wrong to do it again, now that I know about his family?