Straightforward communication is key here! QUESTION: There’s this bate buddy I really like otherwise, except whenever we do mutual, he makes me come too quickly. That’s easy for him because my penis is really sensitive…

Never underestimate the power of cultural conditioning, my Phallic Brother! QUESTION: I saw your column about guys jerking together in the military, and the comment from a veteran who said he never heard of it….

This is very private behavior you are speaking of (normally) and technically, it is strongly tabooed. QUESTION: I’ve always told my boys they have the right to privacy in their room. Recently late one night…

In Shere Hite’s 1981 classic “Hite Report on Male Sexuality” she famously found that 43% of teenage boys experimented sexually with other boys (usually through group or mutual masturbation) and this had no effect on…

The best approach may be to tell him about yourself, in terms of some of the things that turn you on, without getting too specific… QUESTION: My best friend and I jacked off together ever…

If you get too possessive of anyone, that can easily lead to problems, even estrangement. QUESTION: My best friend and I love to masturbate together. We’ve done this since we were way too young to…

Mutual masturbation between guys can be enjoyed a lot of different ways.

This friend and I are both straight, but we like to watch porn together. Of course, we both end up jacking off, only he looks at me a lot. I can tell he wants to touch me, and who knows? Maybe more. How can I tell him No?

Two large groups formed. One was out by the pool deck, and the other was where we were under the awning. Several sub-groups formed with guys joining and leaving as everyone started stroking dick and handling each other’s balls. There were men of all ages and body types.