“Your mate’s erectile dysfunction may be the least of his problems. But that in itself ought to be enough to motivate him to seek professional help.” QUESTION: I’ve got a mate who has gotten strung…

Shame is something learned, usually from very early in life. However, I can offer you a way to gradually dissolve and finally eliminate such shame entirely! QUESTION: This is hard to admit to myself, because…

While the penis is what keeps most Bators connected, I’ve come to understand that we have a fundamental theme that brings us closer than dong.  This theme is connection. When I reminisce about the beginning…

Solosexuality has provided me the safe space that I need in order to take back my power. The first thing I did was panic.  It was happening again and I felt it first in my…

Shame, even as I type the term it makes me feel a certain type of embarrassment, repulsion, and judgement. Shame and masturbation have somewhat of a correlation to one another. At the heat of the…