All men masturbate. All men enjoy masturbation. But some men feel less able to explore this part of themselves. For many of us, we have grown up with a story about how we should masturbate….
I’m sure it is common to most office situations with male workers. It is certainly not wrong morally! QUESTION: Since returning to the office after restrictions have been eased, I’ve been hearing guys masturbate…
“The goon, such passion and desire that your penis gives off is extremely captivating and well renowned in every stroke.” Oh sorry, I was doing a goon chant there. One of the many small rituals…
I love self-pleasuring but also into cages. Can you unite being a bator and being caged? QUESTION: I always had problems with my masculinity below my waist. I wanted to shut myself up with a…
Breathe slowly and deeply, as tools in your kit of masturbation skills and tactics. QUESTION: You often talk about deep breathing and the bate. I mean, I know breathing keeps us alive, right? But can…
When I was younger, I used to love to bate. It was one of my favorite moments for me to connect to my body, my masculinity, connect to my queerness, and my disability. From the…
He still doesn’t know I watched that… but how can I tell him? Do I dare ask if he’ll let me join? QUESTION: I’ve got several roomies. One I have a special crush on. I…
To protect and increase sensation QUESTION: I’m a man in my seventies and I’ve always masturbated a lot. But often I’ve had a raw spot on my penis, even painful, and sometimes on my balls….
Recently a friend of mine told me an eye-opening story about hanging out at the house of a mutual friend of ours. After dinner and some drinks, our friend’s wife excused herself so the men…
“You need not live in fear of any infectious disease if you inform yourself and take sensible precautions.” QUESTION: I’ve heard some scary things about monkeypox lately. Some gay guys are getting it, but…
“Right when I start the porn, he starts to take his clothes off already.” You’ve all been waiting with pitched tents to hear what happened next after Part 1 of Waiting For My New Bate…
“Spiritual practices tend to be individual exploration of your own direct experience…” QUESTION: Don’t get me wrong: I love to bate! Only it’s gotta be a sin if anything is! Depravity and perversion are part…
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