AFFIRMATION: The GQ Straight Bate Article Sex-periential lessons from a bating sexologist, Dr. Jallen Rix (hand2rod) How exciting to see straight male self-love go mainstream in the GQ article by EJ Dickson, and what an…

QUESTION: I’ve got a real problem, and maybe I need help. It started when some of my buddies offered to turn me on to something they said would make sex incredible way beyond anything before….

…open homophobia and secret homoerotic sharing among recruits and military professionals has been used to reinforce loyalty, obedience, and the willingness to go to extremes to protect your comrades or overcome enemy forces. QUESTION: I’m…

My motto is, “A stiff dick has no orientation or sees color.… It just wants to be masturbated.” As I type this I am fifteen minutes into pumping my dong for my three hour edging…

My suggestion to epic semen-retention athletes is that it probably is a good idea to ejaculate sometimes, maybe a couple of times a month, or at least every few months. QUESTION: Hi, Bruce. My son…

Among the core factors, actually, is to be sure not to ignore your testicles. QUESTION: I love my balls! Not necessarily more than my penis, I guess, but just as much in some ways. They…

All erotic enjoyment can be considered good, healthy and psychologically beneficial. QUESTION: Seriously. I think masturbation rocks way beyond any religion! Am I evil? RESPONSE: Not at all. With all due respect for the fact…

…if you deliberately had actual sexual contact with an animal, that would be considered bestiality and unfortunately a different legal matter as well. QUESTION: During this cold weather, while I’m masturbating under the covers, my…

Like most of my posts, this is a true story of an experience I’ve had. I thought it was a good illustration of how “Masturbation Has No Orientation” and so wanted to share it here….

The discussion about whether masturbation is sex or whether it is an aperitif before sex takes place (either as a prelude to intercourse or practice/substitute for the “real thing”) is one that likely won’t be…

Only you can determine how much masturbation might be enough for you. “Predictably, Porn Raises Its Head!” QUESTION: I really love to stroke to porn. I do it every day, sometimes for hours. Can’t seem…

Often you might find men of the community come and go and come back again. One can never really pinpoint the reasoning, and maybe they don’t know either, perhaps they just needed a break. One day you meet a cool bator, chat, bate, connect, and the next day his profile is gone. Did he get cold feet? Does he feel ashamed? They are all valid questions that deserve some answering and elaborating.