Actual, psychologically healthy self-love is a quality many enthusiastic masturbators manifest. QUESTION: Bruce, you often talk about self-pleasure as a form of loving yourself. Isn’t loving yourself just selfishness? I mean, at the expense of…
I often say that in reality, human males do not neatly fit into a handful of labels, as far as our sexuality is concerned. QUESTION: I keep hearing how more and more straight guys like…
I like to think that I host a great bate date. Why do I think so, you wonder? Well thanks for asking, bator! I think so because I just turned an age that starts with…
Updated article from 5.6.2020 It’s that time again and more than ever we need a good celebration! We hope you’re all staying healthy, and of course, masturbating! We’re excited to not only have Hot Octopuss…
“Penises of the Rich and Famous!” QUESTION: I masturbate to naked photos of male celebrities, and of course not all of them are real photos, and it takes some searching. But this turns me on…
What is this Ageism thing, anyway? QUESTION: I’ve got an older friend who I love to masturbate with. I’m 33 and he’s almost 70, but I love his mind, his experience, his good heart. Plus,…
I can hardly squeeze out a drop! How can I make more? QUESTION: Some of my online bate buds (these days they are all online!) make loads of precum, like it pours out! I can…
What if you don’t identify as a “top” or a “bottom” or even “vers”? In gay male vernacular, the term “top” refers to the one who penetrates, and “bottom” is the one who receives. In…
The “Expressway Y” leads to bate bliss triple A+! QUESTION: This thing you call “Expressway Y”—love it, man! It’s bate bliss triple A+++! And I’m not afraid of big words, so can you explain about…
Bateworld Announces Bator Training Series: Season 2 explosive Finale & the premiere of Season 3 for Masturbation Month FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE: March 10, 2021 — Bator Training Series: Season 2 comes full circle to its…
Please explain the (Solo) Sex Magick thing… QUESTION: Your protégé Dragon Puppy often talks about semen retention and Sex Magick. Can you please explain in simple terms just how this stuff works? RESPONSE: It’s my…
Male masturbation is no longer automatically portrayed as a shameful, hidden act. As I perused my newTumbl feed recently, I was struck by how much the representation of male masturbation in pornography has changed in…
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