There is nothing weird about what you say, that imagining a celebrity guy’s penis might be better than seeing the actual thing. QUESTION: Saw your blog about the penis-obsessed guy. Well, I always look closely…
“Can you learn Self-Suck? Is It a Form of the Bate?” QUESTION: What do you think about self-suck, AKA “auto-fellatio?” Of course, it seems most guys can’t do this, but now I see quite a…
“It never helps to compare yourself with others, especially in the department of appearance […] This is an extremely common trap the ego falls into.” QUESTION: Sites like Facebook, gay men’s pages, and a lot…
…Respect how someone wants to be seen, and how they view themselves. QUESTION: I met a really handsome bearded guy in a chat room, and we agreed to masturbate on cam. After a while, when…
Every bator brother can achieve this status. I believe that the best bate sessions start with a great mindset. As my bate sessions grow into new and exciting territories of pleasure, I’m curious if I…
We learn from experience, however, that everyone who looks hot to us is not necessarily a person we really like much, if we get to know them. QUESTION: I was raised by a single mom…
Embrace your size and feel good about it. Don’t measure your penis in length and girth. Measure it in self-love and self-pleasure. That’s the perfect size. Despite some progress in recent years, body image issues…
The penis tends to impress men more than it impresses women. QUESTION: I live with my girlfriend and we do have sex pretty often, at least once or twice a week, and I guess I…
For many men this is quite common during edging, and not likely to represent any particular problem with your internal plumbing. QUESTION: When I edge real intensely, sometimes a little bit of semen comes out,…
Self confidence leads to sexual confidence and vice-versa! During this time of COVID-19, physical distancing, staying home, etc. we’re all scrambling to stay alert, informed, keep busy, stay working, helping in ways we can to…
A certain generosity of spirit, acceptance of the variety of imperfections most of us can find in our own appearance, can go a long way. QUESTION: Maybe I’m just feeling a bit sorry for myself,…
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