In celebration of Bisexual Awareness Month (September), Week (September 18-22), and Day (September 23), BateWorld and The Bator Blog recognize the importance of bi awareness and offers another way in which bi voices can be…

We here at The Bator Blog posted a poll on BateWorld asking “When did you discover you were a bator?” The responses poured in and we were amazed at how many of you wrote contemplatively…

Men masturbate, that is a fact. Some more than others, and for some, like myself,  it is a deeper, more intense experience. It is an art. I am Bateworld member Jaxz and I’m an avid…

This is a story of magic and self-love discoveries from Bateworld member Beastlybator. Similar to solosexual authors M. B. Timothy (Saboteur) and Jason Armstrong (Wildhorse100), Beastlybator shares his personal journey to finding himself, the discovery…

Back in the fall of 2017, when my husband and I moved back home to Atlanta, we didn’t know many folks in our neighborhood. That changed when we started walking our dog three times a…

How do I explain the most beautiful experience of my life? I can think of two words, “Cock Summit”. Ever since I left the Summit my being has been so uplifted, but it is difficult…

All men who hang together should cum together. It’s about the bond… as men. That’s been my motto throughout my life from the time my penis began to grow and form into an extension of…

Often you might find men of the community come and go and come back again. One can never really pinpoint the reasoning, and maybe they don’t know either, perhaps they just needed a break. One day you meet a cool bator, chat, bate, connect, and the next day his profile is gone. Did he get cold feet? Does he feel ashamed? They are all valid questions that deserve some answering and elaborating.

This friend and I are both straight, but we like to watch porn together. Of course, we both end up jacking off, only he looks at me a lot. I can tell he wants to touch me, and who knows? Maybe more. How can I tell him No?