My Massage Exchange Adventures Have Taught Me How To Become A Better Bate Buddy
My Massage Exchange adventures have taught me to become a better bate buddy. While I’m more than happy to explore pleasure by myself with some solo bate time, I feel that it’s also important to maintain…
Ask The Batemaster: Hormones and Masturbation
QUESTION: I’ve heard about dopamine and this other “feel good” stuff in the brain, which increases while I masturbate. I do use some porn and sometimes bate online with guys. But whenever I come, pretty…
Ask The Batemaster: Testosterone Troubles
QUESTION: I’m just in my fifties, and I think I’m having testosterone troubles. My sex drive is a lot less than it was not so many years ago. Maybe work stress and lifestyle are part…
When Did You Discover You Were A Bator?
We here at The Bator Blog posted a poll on BateWorld asking “When did you discover you were a bator?” The responses poured in and we were amazed at how many of you wrote contemplatively…
Ask The Batemaster: How Can Bating Be Spiritual?
“Spiritual practices tend to be individual exploration of your own direct experience…” QUESTION: Don’t get me wrong: I love to bate! Only it’s gotta be a sin if anything is! Depravity and perversion are part…
Ask The Batemaster: My Imagination Seems Better
There is nothing weird about what you say, that imagining a celebrity guy’s penis might be better than seeing the actual thing. QUESTION: Saw your blog about the penis-obsessed guy. Well, I always look closely…
Ask The Batemaster: How To Avoid Body-Shaming
“It never helps to compare yourself with others, especially in the department of appearance […] This is an extremely common trap the ego falls into.” QUESTION: Sites like Facebook, gay men’s pages, and a lot…
Masturbation & Psychoactives: A Journey
“The experimenting that I was conducting […] was quite interesting and fun as hell!” My Solo-sexuality, Edibles, and The Art of Gooning Formerly, Jaxz Masturbando (Jaxz) now under the title Statik Vibez. I have taken…
Men, Just Men in the Eyes of Photographer Jim Wilkinson an interview with Dr. Jallen Rix
Men, Just Men in the Eyes of Photographer Jim Wilkinson I met Jim Wilkinson a while back and grew to enjoy his photography of sexy models. I even got to be a model for him…
Ask The Batemaster: How The “Million Dollar Point” Works For You
A follow up to the original post about the “Million Dollar Point” QUESTION: Bruce, I’m not sure I understand your blog about the Million Dollar Point! I love to rub my perineum and press pretty…
How To Start Having Better, Deeper Sex With Yourself
Every bator brother can achieve this status. I believe that the best bate sessions start with a great mindset. As my bate sessions grow into new and exciting territories of pleasure, I’m curious if I…
Ask The Batemaster: Attracted To Older Guys
We learn from experience, however, that everyone who looks hot to us is not necessarily a person we really like much, if we get to know them. QUESTION: I was raised by a single mom…
