Ask The Batemaster: My Partner Doesn’t Like Me To Masturbate
“…And I can’t do it at home unless he’s gone out. I hate sneaking around, but I do love to bate! Help!” QUESTION: After many years single and lonely, I’ve got a great partner and…
Make Your Penis Your Valentine!
Masturbation Is Best When We Practice Self-pleasure as Self-love. Here is how you can spend Valentine’s Day with your penis. Make your own penis your Beloved Valentine! This does not mean you should not have…
Ask The Batemaster: Bate Buddy Jealousy
If this man is truly your best friend, his happiness must be at least as important as your own. QUESTION: My best friend and I love to masturbate together, and we do this a…
Ask The Batemaster: Isn’t Loving Yourself Just Selfishness?
Actual, psychologically healthy self-love is a quality many enthusiastic masturbators manifest. QUESTION: Bruce, you often talk about self-pleasure as a form of loving yourself. Isn’t loving yourself just selfishness? I mean, at the expense of…
How To Negotiate Being A Bator In Love
“Honey… I’m a masturbator.” A relationship is important. It demands your respect. Futures together are worth it. Pasts spent together are to be cherished. Your relationship to yourself is just as sacred though. Your solosexuality…
Giving Your Penis A Break And Allowing Your Heart To Get What It Needs
It was difficult, in the beginning, to comprehend my feelings of horniness and not wanting to have any kind of sex; I wasn’t even in the mood to masturbate. Where did this feeling come from…
Ask The Batemaster: Guys Compliment My Penis, But My GF Never Does
The penis tends to impress men more than it impresses women. QUESTION: I live with my girlfriend and we do have sex pretty often, at least once or twice a week, and I guess I…
The Pressures Of Dating And How To Flow Freely Into A Possible New Relationship
Choose someone that wants your type of sex, and you’re well on your way to creating a beautiful sex life. The sound of defeat in my friend’s voice slowly transformed into frustration and then concluded…
Boost Your Sexual Confidence
Self confidence leads to sexual confidence and vice-versa! During this time of COVID-19, physical distancing, staying home, etc. we’re all scrambling to stay alert, informed, keep busy, stay working, helping in ways we can to…
I Am Not Your Token: What It Is Like To Be A Man Of Color In The Bate Community
A chat at THE BATE TABLE with Bateworld member MyB8Buddy The Question, What is it like to be A MAN OF COLOR in the Bate-Community? “I don’t fit in this crowd.” “One look at me…
Ask The Batemaster: Telling My Sons Masturbation Is Natural
Male masturbation free from guilt or shame is one of the greatest glories that human life has to offer. QUESTION: I’d say I’m an antique, but in good condition. I’m also the father of two…
Ask The Batemaster: Too Self-Conscious To Cam
A certain generosity of spirit, acceptance of the variety of imperfections most of us can find in our own appearance, can go a long way. QUESTION: Maybe I’m just feeling a bit sorry for myself,…
