Sides and Solosexuals: Challenging the Top and Bottom Dichotomy
What if you don’t identify as a “top” or a “bottom” or even “vers”? In gay male vernacular, the term “top” refers to the one who penetrates, and “bottom” is the one who receives. In…
Ask The Batemaster: Should I Tell My Boyfriend I Need More?
When you can both be open to it, honest communication makes all the difference in the world! QUESTION: My boyfriend of nearly a year is totally adorable. It’s more than sexual, but a lot of…
Ask The Batemaster: We’re Both Straight, But He Wants To Touch Me
This friend and I are both straight, but we like to watch porn together. Of course, we both end up jacking off, only he looks at me a lot. I can tell he wants to touch me, and who knows? Maybe more. How can I tell him No?
