Ask The Batemaster: How Do I Ask For What I Want?
The most effective way to communicate about this is to be open and honest verbally. QUESTION: One of my buds in the house I share with some guys, and I enjoy mutual masturbation quite…
Ask The Batemaster: Lingering Shame
Shame is something learned, usually from very early in life. However, I can offer you a way to gradually dissolve and finally eliminate such shame entirely! QUESTION: This is hard to admit to myself, because…
Seeking Connection With Your Penis Is a Bator Superpower
While the penis is what keeps most Bators connected, I’ve come to understand that we have a fundamental theme that brings us closer than dong. This theme is connection. When I reminisce about the beginning…
Ask The Batemaster: How Can I Keep From Ejaculating So Soon?
I’m still struggling with the urge to ejaculate after maybe just 10 or 15 minutes of stroking, at most. QUESTION: I’m still struggling with the urge to ejaculate after maybe just 10 or 15 minutes…
12 Bate Toys & Fuel To Take With You Into The New Year
We all know 2020 has beyond sucked and we’re ready for a New Year. Fingers crossed it proves better than this previous and we can put it all behind, safely and healthily. In the meantime,…
Dry Orgasms And How To Have Them
A ‘How-to’ on Dry Orgasms You might be great at edging, for hours even, prolonging your masturbation before reaching the point of no return and ejaculating. But how do you experience the orgasmic state without…
Ask The Batemaster: Mutual Masturbation With My Straight Roommate
“Golden Eggs? A Big Deal?” QUESTION: My housemate often comes into my room in the middle of the night and we masturbate each other in the dark without saying anything. In the daytime, he won’t…
Having It All: My Masturbation Lifestyle
We can celebrate our own individual solo sex without hesitation, doubt or shame, coupled with the beauty of the other person’s display and pleasure. I am a 71 year old bisexual male; a passionate masturbator…
Ask The Batemaster: Feeling Left Out
If they’re now more inclined to share without including you, that says more about them than it says about you. QUESTION: I share a big house with 5 college buddies and now we’re mostly doing…
Being A Masturbator
“Our responsibility as men and masturbators is to continue to perpetuate positive images and attitudes toward masturbation…” by Bateworld member JerkoffboyCT For more than three centuries, the notion of a man ‘being a masturbator’, has…
Giving Your Penis A Break And Allowing Your Heart To Get What It Needs
It was difficult, in the beginning, to comprehend my feelings of horniness and not wanting to have any kind of sex; I wasn’t even in the mood to masturbate. Where did this feeling come from…
Ask The Batemaster: Guys Compliment My Penis, But My GF Never Does
The penis tends to impress men more than it impresses women. QUESTION: I live with my girlfriend and we do have sex pretty often, at least once or twice a week, and I guess I…
