How To Explain That You’re Not Into Anal
Hey Bators, FROTOLOGIST here. While I was working on the article, “When Did You Discover You Were a Bator?” I created a poll on BateWorld to spur comments from BW members to use in the…
When Did You Discover You Were A Bator?
We here at The Bator Blog posted a poll on BateWorld asking “When did you discover you were a bator?” The responses poured in and we were amazed at how many of you wrote contemplatively…
Designing Your Bate Cave/Space
Recently a friend of mine told me an eye-opening story about hanging out at the house of a mutual friend of ours. After dinner and some drinks, our friend’s wife excused herself so the men…
Waiting For My New Bate Bud To Arrive, Part 2
“Right when I start the porn, he starts to take his clothes off already.” You’ve all been waiting with pitched tents to hear what happened next after Part 1 of Waiting For My New Bate…
Waiting For My New Bate Bud To Arrive
It’s 1am. I’m waiting on my porch for a guy to come over to bate with me for the first time. He’s been coming into the bar I work at a lot lately. His friends…
Do You Ever Talk Dirty To Yourself While You Bate?
Getting verbal with a buddy is a blast! But could it also be hot to get verbal when you are alone? The great thing about being a bator is figuring out your own methods (which…
